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writes:I have read somewhere that soemtimes men CAN really seem as if they hate you and do everything they can to be nasty but deep down its becasue they like you. Is this true? Because I have to admit soemthing happend recently to make me think this could be. Some man was quite horrid to be in some ways and one of the girls said to me dont be stupid he really likes you. So why then do they do it act as if they dont!!!CAN a man be horrible to a woman they really like??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Hello, i used to think that this meant the guy liked you a whole bunch, and that he wanted you to pay attention to him... but now i think that they are testing your limits and how much you are going to allow him treat you badly while accepting the relationship. Please run! Get the heck away... don't involve yourself with this man. He will become an abusive boyfriend and husband. Take it from someone who has walked down that mile...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Bxxxxxxs!
dont even waste your time going there...Just think what the guy would be like with you ( when he did,nt like you!) if you had a fall out .Why do yu want to be with a horrid natured man? OR is it you thats enticing him to say nasty things to you because YOU enjy it? and i would say if you think deep dwn he does like you...tell the plonker to grow up and let you know...life is too short to play guessing games and there are to many real men out there that are great natured and fun to be with... if you like the guessing game then MAYBE IT IS YOU!!! That needs to come clean. BUT THE ADVICE YOUR FREIND GAVE ????????????????
I am suprised she would like to see you with a man who is NASTY to you. P.s i would change your reading too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): I agree with LazyGuy completely. It can happen and not even be smart enough to realize it. I used to say critical things to my wife many years ago that hurt her. It took me quiet a few years befor I realized what I was doing and stopped. Of course, we have occasionally said things to each other that we both wished had never been said. Neither one of us really meant it, but mean things can be said when in a defensive situation and arguing. It is never good, but it really needs correction if it happens frequently.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 It depends what you mean by being really horrible.
Sometimes people just are unaware that what they do hurts someone else, you might be nasty without ever realizing it.
But if being nasty on purpose, no, I would say that you don't do that to someone you love. Maybe in moment of anger or because you were hurt yourself. It all depends on what happened.
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 Sounds to me as though he may have some demons to tame. Like maybe women have hurt him so much in the past, that now his relationship are in the "Love - Hate" mode.
If you haven't been with him for too long, maybe you should think about "Bailing out" before you get too attached.
Or maybe you can tell him that you don't appreciate or like his hostilities, and you want him to stop it already.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 Yes, it is a form of acting out and it can be because they like you, but only if they are in Grade 6. LOL!
By the time they are in their 50's, they should be mature enough to have gotten past this, hopefully! If they actually do like you and are still acting this way at this age, then they ALSO have a few issues, Honey! So, not a good sign, even if they do like you, unfortunately...
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