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writes:Bare with me i'm so confused and hurt that i just don't know what to do.What if i think my partner of almost 20 years is making a huge mistake by giving up our whole life together to be with her first love who is also maried? Can i do or say anything to change her mind? Reply to this Question
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (13 October 2007):
 She has made her mind up by the sounds of it and you're feelings mean nothing to her when she is considering her happiness. my advice - let her get on with it. okay, you've been together for quite a while but she doesn't want to be with you anymore. you need to let her go. and be happy for her (or at least civil in the time she moves out). you won't stop her and you shouldn't have too. think more of yourself, do better and you'll be fine.
take care.
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 October 2007):
 What if you think it's a big mistake? I think she'd be leaving for sure. When getting someone to stay, it's not about what you think, it's about what they think. It's their feelings that cause them to make a change, If you want to have the possibility of her changing her mind, it's her feeling you need to tap into, not your own.
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