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writes:i don't know what to say its just that i want share my stories to everyone maybe others can relate.Now its midnight i am here in front of my computer typing my stories make as my self defense for what i really felt...maybe in this way everything here inside my heart will relieve..Since we got married me and my Husband stay with his family with his mother,father and sisters..my co workers and friends told me that i was lucky coz we lived in my husband family and they provide everything we need.but they don't know that fact that in that case me and my husband was not able to grow,worst than that i feel that i dont have any right to make decisions,i don't feel that i have privacy.. what ever they say we must follow,even going out they must know,what we bought, where we ate,where we go.everything as much as possible they must know..i am very upset, i always brougt up this topic with my husband but he always neglect it,i felt that he prioritized his family rather than me..his not considering feelings...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank a lot 4 d help..means a lot to me..
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reader, love_and_hate +, writes (2 January 2010):
You have to find the time and insist to talk to him about it.
All those reasons you stated are serious ones and it looks like you are not happy there and this will impact your marriage. Once you talk to him, move out.Find a house or an apartment, you don't necessarily have to buy one.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
You need to talk to him again and try to arrange moving out into a place of your own, and you need to really make it clear to him. If you still get nothing but neglect, start thinking about whether you want to be second best for the rest of your life, or whether you'd be better off moving on with your life.
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