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writes:I had sex for my 1st time nearly 2 days ago, it realy hurts i havn't been able 2 sleep rite.It really hurts to pee, i never expected it to hurt this bad.Can anyone help, and tell me how to stop it hurting? X Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): If you are the age as posted, then you should get medical attention.
I do not want to speculate or discuss the various possibilities, BUT do get medical attention a.s.a.p.
Never risk your health!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): looking at your age group, it could be that you're not physically ready for sex. I suggest that you go and see you doc as you may have picked up an STD or be pregnant...and then wait until you are 16 or so before you do it again.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 August 2008):
Well unfortunately because it says your age is 10 to 12 then there is not a lot you can do. It's because you are a child and your body is not ready for sex yet so you have probably bruised your insides and damaged the bit where you pee. It will all heel up in time though so you'll just have to wait a while till it's better.
This will hopefully put you off having sex again till you are 16 or 17. Most girls will get fingered and other stuff for years before their first time so it doesn't hurt so much. Plus the fact that at 16 you are just larger down there in the same way you have bigger boobs and a foot more in height.
Take Ibuprophen pain killers. You can buy them from the supermarket / chemist / boots for about 30p if you don't get the name brand ones. But always read the leaflet and don't take too many.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): I'll start by saying that if your age range is really 10-12, you are too young to have sex. It sounds like your pain is caused by a urinary tract infection. This means that your urethra, 'waterpipe', which is next to your vagina, got bruised by your partner's penis during sex and is infected. You need to go to the doctor, who will do a urine test, and get antibiotics. If you leave this untreated the bacteria could attack your kidneys and make you really ill. If you continue to have sex at an age when your body is too underdeveloped to be ready you'll probably get this again. I'm very concerned about your situation and suggest that you contact a counselling service for young people, like childline [0800 1111], to talk about it.
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