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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Can anyone explain "the career guy' please. I grew up in the burbs, dated and married my high school boyfriend who was anything but a career guy. I now find myself divorced and living alone downtown in a big city full of career guys. I don't understand them. Do they ever settle down and have a family? or are they married to their job and women to them are just something to play with.."a distraction'. Do they prefer career bitches that can keep up with their lifestyle or do they look for nice family oriented good girls? Am I wasting my time if i get involved with these guys or should I look for a nice guy from the burbs if my goal is to settle down and have a family?Thank you, thank you thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Honey, if you keep on thinking the way you do, you might as well move back to a small town and find yourself a regular Joe who's happy to have a Suzy Homemaker for a spouse. "Career guys" come in all flavors and some of them are looking to settle down, but only with people who are truly compatible with them, the so-called "career bitches" who are unafraid of pursuing interests outside the home and who are fierce and fabulous, i.e. nothing at all like you. If you keep on thinking the way you do, the only guys you'll do well with are the guys who just graduated from high school and have little to no life aspirations. You know, guys who are like you.
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reader, 14all  +, writes (30 December 2008):
Every man is different. It's not possible to say what an entire kind of guy wants. Some want to settle down, some don't. You have to sort them out one at a time.
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