I'm 13 and my parents won't let me date till I'm 17.
Q. I'm 13 and my parents won't let me date till I'm 17. I'm in love with this guy and he's in love with me but I've tried everything for them to let me date. They won't even let me talk to him barely because they don't want me dating so how can I get ...
A. 13 January 2009: Why not ask your parents if the guy you like can come over to have dinner with your family? The better they get to know him the more comfortable they will be with you spending time with him. The number one thing is to stop whining and nagging your ... (read in full...)
He won't initiate, and it's making me insecure!
Q. my BF doesnt intiate lovemaking, i have to always do so..... its making me feel insecure about my self....what so i do?...
A. 9 January 2009: Talk to him about it. He may just like being the passive one in the relationship, but tell him you need to feel that he's passionate about you.... (read in full...)
Straight girl fancies her gay male friend....
Q. I'm a straight girl who fancies her male gay best friend. I've known him for 3 months and he told me he was gay from the start. We clicked from the start and we have great chemistry. Initially I tried to set him up with dates with some other gay ...
A. 30 December 2008: Instead of asking us, ask him. Tell him you need a no-kidding around straight answer (pun intended) about whether he thinks the two of you have actual potential in a relationship. ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain "the career guy' please???
Q. Can anyone explain "the career guy' please. I grew up in the burbs, dated and married my high school boyfriend who was anything but a career guy. I now find myself divorced and living alone downtown in a big city full of career guys. I don't ...
A. 30 December 2008: Every man is different. It's not possible to say what an entire kind of guy wants. Some want to settle down, some don't. You have to sort them out one at a time.... (read in full...)
I'm worried sick out of my mind and don't know who to get help from.
Q. My partner has been lying about going to work, says he had bad nerves we were fighting, he hates the fact my teenage son leaves his room a mess we got over that. He then stayed, said he loved me etc, i tried calling him all day no reply then i ...
A. 30 December 2008: Let me get this straight:
You went to his house. He was in. He did not reply, and as a result you broke a window trying to get his attention?
My suggestion is to seek counseling for yourself as quickly as possible.... (read in full...)
I found a condom in his computer bag. How do I ask him about it?
Q. I have been living with this man for over a year and a half now...we have several animals together..I have met, and have a relationship with his family and friends...It seems to me that we are taking steps to lenghthen our future together...BUT..he ...
A. 30 December 2008: Just ask him. I don't know what the "shelf-life" of a condom is, but if it's more than 3 years you don't have a problem.... (read in full...)
I love him but I feel it's all one-sided!
Q. So I have this guy for almost 3 years. I love him very much, but it seems like he does not feel the same. I have caught him lying to me count less times, and have even checked hi emails and myspace (tho i know its completely wrong) because ...
A. 30 December 2008: Dump him. He's just not into you.... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying or should I just end this marriage?
Q. Should I keep trying to turn on my husband, or just give up, and end this marriage? He really don't care about fixing this, so why should I? You can't have a marriage without intimacy,or can you? What do you think how common is this, and what ...
A. 30 December 2008: Your husband needs a medical checkup to make sure his hormone levels are correct and that there is no medical problem restricting his interest. Aging male lidibo is what Viagra was made for, after all.
All of that to one side, trying waking h... (read in full...)
Feel like a jerk-what should I do?
Q. Hello all, well, my situation is simple yet complex. I was dating this FANTASTIC guy for almost two years and only now i realize what a jerk i had been to him, and nevertheless he always forgave me and understood me and was always with me. I brok...
A. 28 December 2008: It is always better to leave a significant length of time between one relationship and another. Your best bet is to take a long break from both guys and take your time before talking to either of them. Concentrate on your studies for a month or ... (read in full...)
I don't want my family to be torn apart, any suggestions?
Q. Im a 16 year old girl and i live with my two brothers, my mom, and my stepdad. My parents got divorced when i was younger, i dont really mind it except for the fact that my dad has never been there for me. My mom got remmaried when i was 7. I ...
A. 28 December 2008: First of all I'm so sorry you're in this sitation. The best thing I can suggest at this point is that if your church or school provides counseling services, run, do not walk, to make an appointment. If they don't, go to your docotr's office and ... (read in full...)
On & off relationship
Q. Well ok here is the dilema..I've been on and off with this one person 4 about almost 3 years and im soooo in love with him , ii don't want to be with anybody else but the problem is ii don't know if he feels the same way !seein as how it's about to ...
A. 28 December 2008: Tell him straight out what you want, ask him how he feels, and believe whatever answer he gives you. If he doesn't feel the same way, grieve and move on.
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Where can I get a vibrator?
Q. So, yeah. How do you shave around your vagina? does it hurt..how do you do it? And doesnt it grow back..and wont it become itchy? PLEASE help. Thanks a bunch, ..i dont think its normal to have hair down below. + What about masturbating with ...
A. 28 December 2008: To answer your first question:
How do you shave around your vagina?
Answer: CAREFULLY!
But seriously, you should start figuring out how to masturbate without penetration first. Find your clitorist and gently wiggle it back and forth, then ... (read in full...)
What shall I do to prepare myself for him giving oral to me?
Q. I have to put a bit of story behind the question or else it won't make much sense. I'm with a guy who's older than me by four years (he's 20) and we've been together for around 6 months. i met him through a friend as he is the best friend of her ...
A. 28 December 2008: He's not expecting you to be an expert, just an enthusiastic partner. Every guy likes different things anyway, just like every girl does. Half the fun is figuring it out as you go along. And I'm sure I speak for all men when I say that anything ... (read in full...)
Worried that my boyfriend will go off with my best friend if he has a 3some with me and her!!
Q. I am 15 and me and my boyfriend are having sex reguly,we've been dating for 3 mounths now but the sex is getting boring and my boyfriend asked if we could have a treesome with my best friend, I am ok with having a treesome but I'm worried that he ...
A. 28 December 2008: Are you bored with sex with him, or is he telling you sex with you is boring? If the later, dump him, he's a jerk. Do you even know if your best friends wants to be in a threesome?
Say this to him: "I'll think about it but I think my best fri... (read in full...)
Is it better to masturbate or to get a girl?
Q. Hi ladies an Gents If you could help me with this, it'd be helpful. I'm 15, 16 in February, I keep thinking of sex a lot more nowadays, I masturbate a lot more too. I just want to do it! I'm still a virgin but I've had a couple of chances, I wasn'...
A. 28 December 2008: It's not either or. Date girls and keep masturbating. The one doesn't stop the other. :)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sleeps with other women when he gets drunk!
Q. Hi, I need some advice, so anyone who could be of any help - i'd really appreciate it! I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year - on and off. But we grew up together. anyways, during our off times, he goes to parties - gets drunk - and ...
A. 28 December 2008: Dump him.
You can't control his behavior with anything you do or say. It's often easier to think you're doing something wrong than to think you have no control over the other person, but that's the reality. What would you tell a friend whose BF... (read in full...)
I am a straight girl who has always had feelings for women and have in the past acted on my feelings.
Q. I am a straight girl who has always had feelings for women and have in the past acted on my feelings ...until now it has never been anything other than a fumble. i met a lesbian through mutal friends and we have gone from friends to lovers. she is ...
A. 28 December 2008: There is no "normal" and it doesn't matter what anyone else does in bed. The question is whether the two of you are compatable.
Issues of penetration come up between female/female couples all the time. Some women crave it, some women get litt... (read in full...)
My roommate wants to have a both sexes sleepover! I don't!
Q. My roommate wants to have a... sleepover of all things. We're both 20 so it feels kind of weird. It's a small apartment too and she wants to invite a whole bunch of people including guys! I'm not that comfortable around guys in the first place, ...
A. 25 December 2008: Seems to me the solution is to tell your roommate, outloud in words, what you just posted here, or print it out and give it to her. I think you'll find she is understanding and supportive if you tell her what's going on with you. Also, set up some ... (read in full...)
Help! I think my boyfriend is sleeping with his younger sister!
Q. Help! I think my boyfriend is sleeping with his younger sister! I have no proof, what should I do? They both smoke pot, and talk about porn and things....He has even told me that he thinks his sister looks like Angelina Jolie (v.unlikely) and this...
A. 25 December 2008: Dump this guy. Doesn't matter whether he's sleeping with this sister or not, he's rude and disrespectful to you and doens't seem to care about your feelings, and gee, on top of that he's a stoner.
You can do better.... (read in full...)
Our friends want us to join them on a nudist beach,but my wife is a little unsure about doing the Full Monty, any thoughts?
Q. hi we have been asked by close friend to go to a local nudist beach. they have started to go and enjoy the freedom of no clothes. we are both open to the idea and not prudes. but my wife is a little unsure about being seen by someone so close...
A. 25 December 2008: As a long-time nudist - www.codinners.com - what I'd suggest is that you go to the nudist beach by yourselves first. That separates out the "first time on a nude beach" from "first time on a nude beach with friends" experiences and makes them ... (read in full...)
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