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Can a women get really tight from doing kegel exercises?

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Question - (1 October 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2012)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife says she does the kegel exercise all the time but I can barely feel it when she squeezes. So I was wondering how strong a woman's vagina can actually get. Are there some woman that can squeeze so hard that it hurts him? Can some women massage him using just her vagina and bring him to climax?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (2 October 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think a women gets "tighter" per say but she will be able to "milk" you as anon male described. IT does take more work (specially if she's had kids) but it gives both parties a nicer sensation.

And I agree with Cadid Cally, could be you are masturbating too hard or too much to feel much - also the position makes a huge difference - woman on top facing EITHER way will make it easier for the woman to use her muscles also of you two are spooning and she crosses her legs. (sounds odd but trust me on that one).

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012):

you two anonymous males...I am so going to try this with my man...I think he will LOVE IT!!!

Sometimes after he orgasms I will do that and then he has to get out because it turns into a having to pee sensation lol.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012):

Don't know about so tight that it causes physical pain, but the "milking pussy" can be developed. It probably requires some natural physical characteristic, and I'm sure it takes a lot of effort on the girl's part.

Only experienced it with 2 gals. First time I was early thirtys and definitely not a teenage "minute man". She was certainly a casual partner. She probably didn't start out intending intercourse but after some make out, heavy petting, and getting her off pretty intense with my mouth and tongue she either changed her mind or felt obligated. She put me on my back and straddled me for the insertion. I settled in and expected to stroke for quite a while in that position but she sort of pinned my hips under her weight so I couldn't move much. She smiled very sexy and said, "Your going to cum now.". I wasn't quite sure what she meant. The first squeeze took me by surprise and I jerked half upright. I had just got inside and didn't want to cum yet! She put a hand firmly on my chest and pushed me back down. The second squeeze brought me just over the edge and I knew embarrassment was inevitable. On the third squeeze I was already spilling inside her. She relaxed while I twitched, then gave a couple more (and seemed quite pleased with my resulting vocalization) to get all the seed out of me and into her.

After withdrawl she apologized a little for making it happen quite as quick as it did. She said I must not have had that experience before, that most guys try to fight it and last longer but the look on my face was "cute like a virgin boy cumming too soon."

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012):

My wife has been doing them for a couple months. I really can't tell the differance when she's relaxed, but omg when she squeezes!! Not so tight it hurts, but she can "kick me out, and keep me out"! Funny you ask about climax. Just last night she got on top any just sat there squeezing. Man I had such an amazing orgasm. As well she has become more orgasmatic as well.

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A female reader, Candid Cally United States +, writes (2 October 2012):

Yes, there are women who can hurt a man using just her pelvic floor muscles. NO it is NOT pleasant for either the man or the woman.

There are devices on the market that can help her strengthen her muscles. I do not know if they work. I've never tried one.

Finally, if you masturbate, there is a good possibility that you are 'choking the chicken' with too tight of a grip. If you masturbate aggressively or with a tight grip, you will decrease the sensitivity of your penis. Decreased sensitivity would lead to you not really being able to feel your wife despite all of the kegels she is doing for you.

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