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writes: im 17,almost 18 and i broke up with my bf 2 weeks ago because he never calls or calls me back. He always said he had plans whenever i asked if we could hangout (many times) so it got to the point where i couldnt take not seeing him and barely talking to him anymore. I told him we should stop going out (we had been going out for about 17 months) he said ok and i asked if we could still be friends and he said he didn't care. I said i wanted to be so he said he guess' thats fine. I've talked to him a couple times since then and he doesnt have much to say. He doesnt seem at all upset that we broke up, yet it killed me to do it because i still like him, alot. Infact i miss him so much i cry pretty much everyday because its mostly all i think about. why am i so miserable and when will it end? :'(
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reader, pica +, writes (11 August 2006):
Oh, and PS, don't go down the friends route. Just prolongs the heartache. Cut all unavoidable contact.
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reader, pica +, writes (11 August 2006):
It will end, I'm afraid, when you put some distance between the two of you. You missed what you two had, but you don't have it any more. He's been a real coward, not even bothering to split up with you, just letting it hang so you eventually get the hint. I know it's hard, but your life isn't about him, it's about you. Make some plans, give yourself some TLC and move on. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): everybody responds to things differently. for all you know, he may just be bottling it up inside, appearing as though he doesn't care. some people just don't like to show emotions because they view them as weaknesses. either that, or it's possible that he just grew tired of the relationship. i know that's not pleasant to think about. but judging by the fact that you said he stopped calling you, and started calling you back saying that he was busy with his friends every time, it may be that he was going to break up with you but didn't know how. maybe he was waiting for you to break up with him. either way, i'm sorry about all of this. i hope it's just that he doesn't know how to express his emotions. good luck, and you'll get through it. just give it time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): im sorry girl but if you guys whent out for 17 months then hes an ass hoel if he doesnt care why dont you ask him what was up why did things change and try to think of other things talk to ur friends and family it helps alot
i hope u feel better
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