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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, 3 days ago and have been NC since. He'd started being distant and this was a problem I'd had for months. He said he wanted to be with/loved me but the distance was too much. I assumed he was waiting for me to break up him, so I did. I changed my number and blocked/deleted him off social networking sites/xbox. Last night I was on the 360 playing black ops when all of a sudden he joined my game and finished the round. He killed me a couple of times, and once the match was over he left. Prior to joining my session last night, when he knew I'd broke it off with him, he set his xbox profile to "friends only" but I could still see his friends.. after joining me last night he all of a sudden changed his profile to "public" but has now hidden his friends. I'm confused. Is he trying to tell me something or is this a strange coincidence? If you know how many people play COD: Black Ops 2, you'd find it hard to believe he didn't join on purpose. It is possible he still has messages from me that I'd sent a week ago and I'm guessing that maybe he joined through one of those? Any thoughts?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 February 2013):
 Yeah, I play CODBO2 on occasion myself, and it doesn't mean much except maybe it's his way of keeping even a tiny bit of contact.
If you insist on NC, simply ignore him or leave the lobby where he is to find another game. There are 6 zillion rooms, lobbies, Team Deathmatch games (or other games). Eventually without encouragement from you, he'll stop.
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