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Boyfriend over analyzes everything. How do I not sweat the small stuff?

Q.   I am in a new relationship with a great guy and have been dating him for the past 2 months. I am new to the dating scene but he treats me right, talks to me everyday and constantly tells me he cares for me. I really like him and want this to work. ...

A.   18 October 2009: I think the best thing to do is be open about it and have a chat with him, tell him how you're feeling but say some good things too. If he respects you enough he'll listen but don't let it turn into a row. I think you can make it work if you expr... (read in full...)

How likely is it they will get together?

Q.   okay. still on the same stupid boy. so quick background info. im 18 hes 21 we moved in together about a month ago. i didnt think i was ready and wanted to get my life together first so i broke up with him and moved back with my family. i realized i ...

A.   18 October 2009: To me it sounds as if your man is genuine unless, of course, you feel that something is up. Not every man is going to get with every female friend he has but the fact that she is his ex is a bit strange because i know myself that it is extremely ... (read in full...)

What is up with her?

Q.   I dont get it. Why do women tell a guy that they aren't interested in them, they don't feel the same way, reject them... then all of a sudden they end up liking you? I had a girl tell me she didn't feel the same way, it hurt so much i didnt tal...

A.   17 October 2009: Well I sort of ended up doing this to my current boyfriend after we split up a while a back. It took him 6 months to get me back. but there was reason for me saying no. Mainly I needed to sort myself out. I have this stupid paranoia problem and beca... (read in full...)

Am I the only one for him? I'm paranoid and he's a good liar.

Q.   My boyfriend and I started dating over a year ago now, however when we got together I was aware that he would be moving far away soon after. He kept changing the date he was going and I found myself trying to distance myself from him despite the ...

A.   17 October 2009: Maybe I should clarify a little: I said I was mature beyond my years because I'm not one of these little girls who don't know what a relationship is and mucks about (Which is most of them around tbh!) I want a commitment not sex or an accessory. ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but am terrified of him!

Q.   I really need some help. I am trapped. I don't know where or who to go to bc the stupid part of me feels that this isn't reality. My boyfriend of 2 years is from Italy. I am American. He's been coming down from depression and I have been trying...

A.   16 October 2009: I can't tell you to leave because the only one who can make that call is you. But what I will say is you deserve better, you can't be truly happy when you're terrified of being shouted at or hit. This kind of behaviour is abusive and you shou... (read in full...)

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