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writes:My boyfriend of over 2 years and I recently broke up.One thing that really bothers me about our relationship is that he never wanted to kiss or make out with me. I find this so embarrassing and it makes me feel horrible.When we first started going out with me, he loved kissing me and would always tell me I was a good kisser. And now, before we broke up, I don't think we had made out since January or so. We did do other intimate things together, but I just feel so upset and confused why we wouldn't do something so basic as kiss/make out. I know this seems trivial, but it really hurts me cause I feel like I just wasnt special to him anymore. And I wasn't worth kissing anymore. Is it as simple as that? Have I answered my own question? Did he just not feel strong enough feelings for me to want to kiss me anymore?I have tried to ask him before about this, but he never answered it. Thanks everyone..!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): Thank you so much.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Hi Hun,
I think that you need to realize that this is all about him and his issues and that you should not take this on as yours. This has nothing to do with you or your desirability as a woman or your sexuality. There is something going on with him. I don't know what, but something was up, and it had nothing to do with you, and everything to do with whatever was going on in his head. As upsetting as this is, you should try to absolve yourself of any responsibility for any of it and try to move on with your life. Sorry for all you pain and confusion, Hun, hope this was a bit of comfort to you.
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