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writes:I'm a little hurt the guy I've been dating for the past 8 months won't pick me up from the airport. I didn't ask him to drive or pick me up. I've made other arrangements with a friend to do that. She's a good friend I've known for years and I knew she wouldn't mind doing me this favor. However the guy I'm seeing asked if I wanted him to pick me up. I was excited that he offered. I thought it meant he was excited to see me again after not seeing me for the past 2 weeks. I thought it was sweet and was happy.....But he changed his mind and said he couldn't pick me up because he had made plans with his friends that night. He wouldn't be able to make that if he picked me up. And now I'm slightly disappointed and upset. If he never offered in the first place I wouldn't care or think twice about him not picking me up. But the fact that he offered and changed his mind makes me think he doesn't care about me at all. He's picking his friends over me. Am I wrong to think like this?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (22 October 2013):
So HE asked you if you wanted to be picked up at the airport and you said yes. The contacts you later and said he was doing something with his friends.
That is the sentence I get from your whole info, I would be very upset. I'm not sure that I would be sticking around. I don't see that getting any better.
GOod Luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 October 2013):
 Did he agree to pick you up and you had the date and time set and THEN he made plans with his friends and is leaving you in the lurch or did he offer and then realize he had a conflict?
IF he said he would and he was free and clear and THEN his friends got him to make plans and he was willing to cancel his arrangement with you, I'd be upset and it's wrong...
IF on the other hand he offered but then checked his calendar or was reminded of a prior commitment, then he's not wrong.
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