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writes:Hi evryone! 1 am in love with my bf (his 27 yrs old), we love each other so much but my problem is he doesn't have money, even the money to start a business, his working but his salary is 2 smal, and he cannot get another job because he doesn't have qulifications,he didn't go to school,and he hate school, i don't knw what to do but he give me all the love that i want,and he want a baby.plz help me! Thank in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): sounds like a winner... no education... can he get a good job? can he provide for a family? His rush to knock you up sounds like an attempt to anchor you to him so you can't leave. Sounds like slavery to me.
Time to let the man-boy go figure out his life... and for you to go find a real man who can provide for you.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 They say when you have nothing else but love, then love itself is enough. Clearly in your case. But very impractical.
All love and nothing else is not a very happy place to be in. I'm not discouraging you; he could be a great guy. But a few years down the line, when reality sets in, life will get very, very difficult. Bringing a child into this world is the last thing that you should be thinking about now.
With the way that expenses have shot up everywhere, bringing up a child will prove to be a nightmare for you. Obviously you would not want to settle for anything but the best for your child, but with the way your B/f is, thats not going to be easy at all. He's not qualified, he doesnt even want to study anymore. You might even grow to resent him for putting you through and the child through all this.
Do you honestly see a future with this man? Because at some in time, this issue about a baby will come up again, and you would be at crossroads yet again. Your love for him VS practical realities. Don't even consider having a child now, instead try to talk some sense into him and get him to be financially secure first.
All the best!!
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