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writes:I was wondering if you could help me. My boyfriend has been really depressed lately. He is going through his second divorce. We used to see each other once a week, I have not seen my boyfriend in a month. He told me i deserve batter, i told him he deserves a good woman like me and i deserve a wonderful man like him. He told me he really misses me very much , and he said he pro misses me. He told me that i have been more then patient and then he said i deserve batter. I know he is depressed and down. I was wondering what i can do to help him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): red butterflys answer was very harsh i feel considering she doesn't know your bf, your bf is showing textbook signs of depression coming from a divorce, all you can do if you really love him is give him the space he needs, let him know yr there if he needs you and maybe text him once a fortnight to check on him...
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reader, redbutterfly +, writes (14 March 2011):
start off with not pitying him. he's just wanting you to pity him don't do that. second of all it sounds to me like he's wanting to give you that hint that he doesn't want you anymore and he wants u to be unhappy so you'll walk away everyone does it. they do this whole reverse psychology mess it doesn't work. well sometimes it does anyways give him what he wants set things straight. Tell him "I can make you happy and i have that capability but are you capable of letting me make you happy"
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