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I went to his house, did not want sex, he insisted, I feel violated, should I?

Q.   i kinda have this friends with benefits thing but i hardly see him these days as i wanted more than just sex. Anyway, i went round his the other night and we chilled for a bit but then i decided to go without having sex, for the reason i said ab...

A.   3 June 2009: '25 and really good looking, not as rapist'....What does a rapist look like?? You're between 16 or 17 it says in your profile and he's 25....I know in the UK that's over the age of consent but its still pretty significant. He's raped you, rega... (read in full...)

Boyfriend and his mother are not kind to me throw my life up in my face

Q.   My boyfriends mum really hurt me yesterday. She started a convo about domestic violence and stuff. But then she started mentioning my mother. My mum has done some terrible things to me, but i have also gave as much back. Bfs mum thinks i dont stand ...

A.   3 June 2009: Get away from your boyfriend, he's bad news! NOBODY should hit you! You're strong and you can walk away from all this. I'm sorry about your mother. You need to start a new life elsewhere, if you're old enough just get away from it all. Keep st... (read in full...)

Engagement on the ropes...

Q.   Its long, but i desperately need help.. Me and my fiance started dating in Dec 03(we were 14). In Dec 05(age 16), she found out that i cheated on her. I swore to her that i would never do it again. Then i did at some point and she found out not lo...

A.   3 June 2009: Your girlfriend is an angel for forgiving you for cheating on her so many times. I don't think you deserve her but that's my opinion, you seriously need to talk to her and get your cards out on the table... (read in full...)

Confused. closet or bi?

Q.   my ex used to have these moments, usually when he was high or really tired, when he'd blurt out: "oh, i'm gay...i'm gay i'm gay..." and it never had anything to do with what we were talking about or doing. he'd always just blurt this out randomly...

A.   2 June 2009: He sounds unconfident and confused by his own sexuality. To me, he just sounds flirtatious and flamboyant. Think about his past, you say he 'seemed to have a deep need for masculine energy'. Think to the male figures in his life. Fathers, brothers... (read in full...)

Should I experiment more with my boyfriend?

Q.   Right, recently my best friend has been doing things with her boyfriend like tossing off and fingering. My boyfriend and her boyfriend are best mates. My boyfriend has been saying that maybe we should give it a go, but I'm not sure what to do, or ...

A.   2 June 2009: Don't do things because your friends are doing it or because your boyfriend wants you to do it. Get completely clued up on what these things involve and only do them when you feel you're ready. You'll want your first experiences of these things to ... (read in full...)

How can I make myself last longer while having sex?

Q.   Hi im 15 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex i sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that i am not ...

A.   2 June 2009: Don;t have continuous sex. When you feel yourself approaching the edge, stop and go down on her or kiss her and let your excitement go down a little. If you pace yourself, You'll last a hell of alot longer. And remember, you're still young an... (read in full...)

What is true love?

Q.   hey i need help with something and i would love you guys to help me well i don't know what love is ...meaning like how do you know when your in love is it when u miss that person is it when you want to kiss that person every time u see them and also...

A.   2 June 2009: I am 19 and have been with my boyfriend since we were 14. We are best friends. We are ready to move in together in August and I believe I know the answer to your question.... It's not caring if he see's you looking like shit when you wake up in th... (read in full...)

I'm not a whore... so what is my problem?

Q.   Okay, so I'm 14 and I have a huge problem. I'm a flirt. I know it, everyone knows it. There's this cycle I go thru with almost every single guy I've known. 1. I get their number 2. We text and flirt 3. I send pics 4. He stops talking It'...

A.   2 June 2009: I'm 19 and I remember a friend being like this when I was your age. This is part of puberty. You're experimenting with your sexuality. If the people calling you a 'whore' are your age, then put it down to immaturity and/or jealousy. As long as ... (read in full...)

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