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Confused about my family life--Mess!

Q.   ok so i am completely confused at the moment... me and my younger sister who is 15 want to run away from home because we are having to deal with verbal abuse everyday and we dont know what to do.. and then theres my bf who i love hes 21 im 18 and...

A.   24 December 2008: Hey, no im not going to say your too young, in fact the opposite. You are 18 which makes you an adult, so in fact you are old enough to make your own decisions including who you date. If your parents know that you are already dating this guy then ... (read in full...)

Will he hook up with his ex tonight?

Q.   so there's this guy that i have been seeing, he has an ex girlfriend though and they just broke up 3 months ago, i know that seems like a while but they also went out for like 3 or 4 years maybe more maybe less i'm not really sure, long story short ...

A.   24 December 2008: Hey hun, one thing to remember here, we cupids are only here to give our advice on the information you have told us, obviously we dont know everything or the whole story. You know this guy better than any of us here and if you think hes worthy of ... (read in full...)

I want to know how much I mean to her and if she's ever going to grow out of her tendency to only have short relationships?

Q.   My girlfriend (we'll call her Hiei, and I'll be Kurama) lives in Louisiana and I live in Pennsylvania. I'm 20 and she's 18(now). We have had a sort of on-again-off-again relationship since January 2007. We dated online for six months, the first ...

A.   24 December 2008: Hey again, can i just say that you are really good to this girl and she obviously trusts you to tell you personal things that are going on in her life. I hope she appreciates you as much as she should. She is obviously having a hard time at home and ... (read in full...)

In love with brothers, and stuck in a mess!!

Q.   Hey I met a guy 6 months ago, our feelings grew quickly towards each other and we fell in love although we couldn't be together due to us being long distance. We keep in touch and plan to be together next year as intense as this sounds i...

A.   24 December 2008: Hey, well in this case you have two options. 1. Tell the older brother that you have feelings for his younger brother. However, think about the reprocussions of doing this. Will it cause a feud between the brothers. To be honest the younger ... (read in full...)

Bad gag reflex but my b/f wants oral sex

Q.   So I'm really new at this dating thing, never really had an official boyfriend until now. I am 20 and he is 19. He was surprised when I told him I am a virgin, and that I've never been kissed. Well he says I can kiss pretty good now, but kissing...

A.   24 December 2008: Hey there, you know the saying practice makes perfect. Try practicing on a carrot or cucumber, after a while you will get used to it and you wont gag. If this grosses you out too much then just try it on him, and just take as much as you can without ... (read in full...)

Please tell me how he feels for me agony aunts I need to know before I get things straight.

Q.   hey.. well I am having a problem figuring out what this guy actually feels for me.. so here it goes I have been talking to this guy for the past 6 months he was introduced to me by a close friend of mine and we hit it off really well..he stays in a ...

A.   18 December 2008: This guy is clearly interested in you. He obviously thinks that you are not interested in him, and feels he is wasting his time fighting for a girl who doeant feel the same him as he does you. That is why he told his mates he hasnt got the time... (read in full...)

My emotions are all over the place after losing my dad last month...

Q.   Last month my dad past away with MS and my emotions are all over the place, if someone starts to get me in a mood I just lose it and my boyfriend said he is there for me but he's not, he thinks evry thing is okay when it's not. I tell him I'm not ...

A.   17 December 2008: It will take time for your emotions to settle again after loosing a loved one. I know it hurts and it feels like no one understands, but your boyfriend is right and it will eventually get better. Dont try and rush your mourning though, take your ... (read in full...)

We ignore each other since he found out that I like him, what to do about it?

Q.   There's this guy in my 8th period class, and the whole class found out that i like him-witch is true... we used to talk and stare at each other but now we ignore each other... He's kinda shy...wht should I do?...

A.   17 December 2008: If he is a shy guy like you said, then he is probably a little bit embarrased at the fact that you like him. This does not mean he doesnt like you, just that he would rather not have the whole of your grade know this. This is probably why he ... (read in full...)

I want to know how much I mean to her and if she's ever going to grow out of her tendency to only have short relationships?

Q.   My girlfriend (we'll call her Hiei, and I'll be Kurama) lives in Louisiana and I live in Pennsylvania. I'm 20 and she's 18(now). We have had a sort of on-again-off-again relationship since January 2007. We dated online for six months, the first ...

A.   17 December 2008: I definatly think this girl likes you a lot and obviously cares for you. I think she is just feeling the pressures of a long distance relationship. Its hard for her to only see you every couple of months or whatever, and by her refering to bored... (read in full...)

I'm failing-can't stop thinking about her!

Q.   ok, im in my year of gcse's and im not doing well in the boring subjects like science and maths because im thinking of that special someone i don't go out with her but we don't speak to each other she's the only thing on my mind apart from when im ...

A.   17 December 2008: We all have subjects at school we are not good at, just make sure that you are not using this girl as an excuse for failing these classes. If this girl really is the cause for you not doing well in these classes, then ask a teacher, friend ... (read in full...)

I wanna break up with him but don't know how

Q.   well i have this problem with my boyfriend! he is very shy and i kinda made him jealous! it was not that i wanted to it was just that my friend asked me out to the movies and i said no because my bf was there! i want to break up with him but i dont ...

A.   17 December 2008: If i was you, i would just tell your boyfriend nicely and in private, that you think it is time to break up. I cant really tell you what to say to him unless i know the reason why you want to break up with him. But feel free to write back and tell ... (read in full...)

Do dreams really come true?

Q.   Hey everyone, Lately mostly every single day I've been having dreams about the one person i truly care about and its always about him and I- Every night I'm just dreaming about him like my dreams never changed just differen't stories- I'm not a true ...

A.   17 December 2008: Dreams dont come true on their own, however we all have the ability to make them come true (unless your dreams consist of unicorns or anything of the sort. If this is the case i suggest you go back to sleep). You can try and make your dreams c... (read in full...)

Will he hook up with his ex tonight?

Q.   so there's this guy that i have been seeing, he has an ex girlfriend though and they just broke up 3 months ago, i know that seems like a while but they also went out for like 3 or 4 years maybe more maybe less i'm not really sure, long story short ...

A.   17 December 2008: Be vary wary of this guy. You said that when he and his ex break-up he sees other girls. It seems to me that you are one of these girls and i would be worried he will eventually go back to her again if i was you. Also if youve been told that h... (read in full...)

I'm a party girl and he's cramping my style!

Q.   I need help people, ive been with my present boyfriend for over a year now, i left my ex of 4 and a half years to be with my present boyfriend, but problem is he isnt the guy i fell in love with, his attitude has totally changed and he says he was ...

A.   17 December 2008:  If you stay with this guy and give up your party girl ways or youth, you will sure regret it when your older and wont have the time to party anymore. You clearly dont like to do the same things or have the same things in common. If yo... (read in full...)

Boyfriend - bestfriend troubles...break up,or stay and lie ?

Q.   Please Help ! I don't know what to do, I've been coping on my own for so long, I have a boyfriend, I've been with him 2 months on xmas eve... we have been together before, quite a few times but I have always broke up with him mainly because I...

A.   17 December 2008: If your boyfriend does not excite you anymore, then you should definately break-up with him. The longer you leave it, the more heart broken he will be and the more frustrated you will be. And whatever you do, dont decide in a few months or wh... (read in full...)

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