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writes:just a simpol thing that worries me slightly. Me n my boyfriend have been together for a year and our sex life is great but when ever my boyfriend cums and I see it I always seem to gag and I cant control it. (Altho when I give him a blow job it doesnt bother me at all) its happend once or twice befor with past boyfriends but not all the time, and even my own bodly fluid makes my tummy turn. is there somthing I can do to stop this or will it pass in time. please help x
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reader, person12345  +, writes (17 February 2012):
 Have you tried desensitization therapy, where you first learn techniques to calm anxiety (usually breathing techniques, you can look these up online) and then you gradually expose yourself to the things that make you uncomfortable? You would probably want to start with typing out the words and looking at them. If that raises your anxiety, you will use the breathing techniques to calm down. Then you can move on to pictures, then to actually looking at it. Not all at once, but over the course of maybe a month.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (17 February 2012):
 Is there any reason they make you feel like this or did it just come from nowhere?
You cant control how you feel but you work on telling yourself they are just fluid and nothing to be concerned aboutm and generally try not to focus on them.
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