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Blow job with a condom?

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Question - (29 March 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2012)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I want to give this guy a blow job but I can not stand semen! People tell me to spit it out but even the thought of having it in my mouth makes me wanna throw up. What should I do? Is it OK to give a blow job with a condom so that the semen doesn't get into my mouth? HELP!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2012):

definitely yes. use flavoured condoms. they are manufactured for oral sex. they taste good (you can choose your favorite flavour) and you won't end up having semen in your mouth. but he will be less sensitive so you may get tired before he can finish.

speaking of finishing, most of the guys can't cum by only receiving a bj. usually the girl gets him close and then, she (or he) use the hand to finish. so, you don't have to worry that much about it. ask him beforehand to let you know when he is going to cum, and you can decide what to do.

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A male reader, mb129 United States +, writes (31 March 2012):

They make something called a dental dam. Usually flavited, looks like a square of cloth. I have never used one but it might work for you?

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A male reader, JustHelpinAgain Canada +, writes (30 March 2012):

Do you want to give him a bj rather than have sex? To be honest I always prefer to put my penis in a vagina - for one there are no teeth - but my wife really gets turned on giving a bj so I consent. If there are any health doubts then a condom is always required. Otherwise is it just the thought of semen or the taste that repulses you? I've heard women say that if you swallow fast you don't taste much! But if you really don't like it why do you want to do it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2012):

A condom is a good idea. You don't have to have semen in your mouth and - most importantly - it will protect you from disease. Don't do what you are not truly ready to do - EVER!

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A female reader, Blonde68 United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2012):

Blonde68 agony aunt

Like previously advised - Condoms are good for protection. In my opinion having sampled flavoured condoms when in my younger years, they aren't that good, and the flavour goes within minutes.

A true gent will tell you when he is about to cum! However, I have found that a mans penis goes a lot harder when he is about to cum - so once you start recognising the change in the stiffness of your boyfriends penis when it is in your hand and mouth, you may be able to prepare yourself so that it doesn't end up in your mouth.

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A male reader, Cerberus Ireland + , writes (30 March 2012):

Cerberus agony auntThe others are right OP, a condom is a good idea for protection but it kind of defeats the purpose as it's not that great with one on.

As the others said he should give you warning beforehand anyway and you just finish him with your hand.

I must add though that if he precums a lot then a condom may be your only option. Unless precum doesn't bother you.

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A female reader, person12345 United States + , writes (30 March 2012):

person12345 agony auntA condom will also prevent STDs, which can be transmitted thorough oral sex.

Though you don't have to have him finish in your mouth, you can have him get close and then finish him with your hands or something. Just make sure to tell him to give you a warning. I also cannot stand to have a guy finish in my mouth. If a guy intentionally (meaning he didn't do it on accident) tried to force you to take it in your mouth, that is sexual assault.

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A male reader, unknown2u United States + , writes (30 March 2012):

They sell flavored condoms for a reason -- they're intended for oral sex.

That said, a true gentleman gives the girl a warning, so she can choose to not have it in her mouth. That clearly requires a level of trust. But if he understands that not giving fair warning means the last ever bj, well, most guys figure it out.

Your call.

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