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Bf is going with his bike to a big spring break party! I don't want him to go..what should I do?

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Question - (12 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Does anyone know about Laconia bike week (not just heard of it)..is it like a spring break where the girls are going wild and its all about finding a one night stand and women doing pervocative things at the bars?

There is a possibility of my b/f going with his bike to one of these and i really need advice b/c i dont think it is right to go if in fact this is what this thing is all about.

Please write back, i dont know what to do.

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A female reader, Only Forever United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2007):

Only Forever agony aunthttp://www.laconiamcweek.com/schedule/index.htm

Theres the official website (the wonders of google :])

It seems pretty innocent to me, he just has an interest in bikes. Why don't you test the waters - take an interest in it and talk to him about what he'd be doing there.

Is there any reason why you couldn't go with him?

It could turn out to be a great way to bond with him if you took an interest in his hobbies. You never know - you could have a really good week with him.

Good luck anyway, and don't worry too much about it. If you two care about each other, then you have to trust each other at some level. If you don't end up going, then the week could be a good way of seeing what happens - there are eventually going to be times in your life where you have to be apart.

Voice whatever concerns you have to him. If you get through this, then the chances are you'll feel much more secure and comfortable in your relationship with him.

Take care, Megan

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntQuestion is do you trust him?

What are his motives for going?

It does sound a bit suspect, but you have to reserve the fact that his motives (might) be innocent.

It all depends on the trust you have for each other and how far that trust will go in your relationship as it stands currently.

Is this you being paranoid?

I have never heard of this bike gathering so I cant comment on it.

Goodluck..

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