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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have know this girl for 17 yrs of my life and we been off and on again in contact.. she moved a couple of states away and we would write letters and talk on the phone.. The last time we got in contact she flew to see me and we had this chemistry that seemed great.. So she decided to find a job down here and start a relationship with me..We dated for little over a yr and 1/2.. It had it's highs and low's.. I was going through a great depression and was taking it out on her emotionally.. She told me she tried and tried to get the relationship to work.. Then for lent she gave up Facebook and noticed that she was becoming distant.. Even on text msg's.. After lent ended she instantly defriended me on FB and a friend told me she added in a relationship with some other guy.. Never told me stopped talking to me the works..Well about 2 wks after that she started to txt me and we had a mutual lunch with a friend to make it safe.. it went well i guess and she started to txt me more.. and started to talk on the phone.. We started to get close again and a friend of mine txt'd her to leave me alone and all this other crap and we handled that..Now I got the history out of the way.. Yesterday she sent me a pic of her mad and then happy cause of the drama and she got over it.. She say's she is happy in her relationship but misses our relationship.. We haven't hung out or anything.. I am just confused on her intentions.. She doesn't know many people here.. Just confused, we were really really great and close friends and now we just text over the phone.. I guess my question is, after being hurt is she trying to get the friendship back or just holding on to me.? Or is she getting tired of her so called rebound..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): It's hard to say. She sounds wishy-washy in a way, but it also sounds like she left you because you were frustrating. She found happiness in someone else even though she obviously really cared for you.
Try stoking the fire a little bit and see where it ends up. If you're both in better places of your lives, it might work this time.
The best way to find out what's going on is to have a heart-to-heart chat. If you're truly close and friends, this won't be an issue.
Best of luck.
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