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writes:I need advice on the best way to ask a gilr a question.I've met a girl, and really like her, I've not been in a proper relationship before, so she's kinda my first.We're chatting alot via msn and text, and getting to know eachother.She is 21 and has had 2 boyfriends in the past, she isan amazing girl, and has high morals and values from what I seen now I want to know how the best way would be to ask if she had slept with them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Hey,
Thanks for all the advice, and thoughts.
What I meant by never being in a proper relationship, basically means i've not been in a relationship, and haven't been with a girl sexually, I doubt that she has, I get that feeling, because I want this relationship to be special for us both if it goes forward, and I want things to go well for us both and for the love to be powerful. She is my first gf, I'm not a guy to date and date, and sleep with lots of people, I might b old school, and believe it and altho she has dated another guy doesn't bother me. I just hope that it would be a start of many things together, that are special to us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Hi Hunny
I wouldnt go down that road sweetheart as waterloo said once you open a can of worms thats it, I had a guy do this to me once and he wouldnt shut up one question led to another and he was never satisfied, The past is the past sweetheart we learn we grow and we move on. If you are happy with this young lady and she is happy with you then just be happy together TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): I'd be hesitant in asking someone who is an amazing girl and has high morals and values if she slept with someone else, it kind of contradicts the statement.
You should accept the person for who she is now, not the past, and in time, you will tell through her personality and charachter whether the question should be asked.
You've stated you haven't been in a proper relationship (not sure what that really means), but it sounds like you could end up putting your foot in your mouth if your not careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): I think it should be okay to ask er this but make sure you make a convosation out of it. Ask her in a descrete way and make sure she knows your not being rude. If you are not comfterbul asking her like that maybe you should leave it and leave the past in the past!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Why do you want to know? The past is the best and often best left there. Remember once you take the lid off a can of worms you cannot put them back in and that applies to anyone past, so be careful what you ask for or you might not like what you hear.
take care
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 There is no best way to ask her that. That's her life, and whether she slept with anyone else or not is not relevant. She lived her life the way she thought she should, or could, or the way she wanted it, and that's her decision. To me, the fact that she's amazing and has high morals means a lot more.
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