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writes:how can i get my wife to remember the things that i like without always having to repeat myself. this goes for almost everything sex included. i pride myself in trying to please her but she just dose not seem to want to know and complains when i ask her to do things slightly diffrent, and when she dose she can't or won't do it the next time. we have been together for nearly 20 years and still dosen't remember my likes and dislikes. Reply to this Question
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 It sounds to me like your wife is being a little selfish. Have you tried talking to her about it? You know, sitting her down with her undivided attention and telling her what's on your mind? Maybe she doesn't realise the effects her actions have on you or maybe there is a good reason for her behaviour that she hasn't told you about. I'm pretty sure if you talk to her about this and tell her exactly how you feel she will make some improvements. Since you've been together for so long she cares about you and should be willing to go out of her way to make you happy. So talk to her about it and come to a solution together. Good luck.
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