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writes: I am having a problem in my relationship I hope someone can answer. I have been married for 5 years now. We both have jobs out of the county. Well on his days off he does not spend them with me he likes to go drink with his buddies. I just want to know why he wants to do this. I am seriously thinking of leaving him. If I have to stay at home on weekends why he can't at least spend time with his family. Please Help!! Divorce is crossing my mind.
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reader, zosey +, writes (24 August 2006):
 hey, it sounds like ur man may need a shock to realise what hes got, maby u could stay with a friend one weekend wothout telling him and see if he rings you or txt u or tries to get in contact, if he does he cares and is woundering ware u r, he may not realise hes hurting u and u may want to try and talk with him when hes not drunk and with his buddies, and if he dosnt listen well, at least u tried thats all u can do he has to meet hlf way if he wants to keep u and ne children u may have together, i hope u can sort ur marage out and get everything sorted out, take care and good luck, zoe
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 why dont you try dropping your children off to your moms or his if you have any for the weekend then asking to go along with him for a drink? or setting days e.g he goes out sunday and saturday night you two go out together. see how things go then.
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