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writes:please help! do men honestly like larger women? im confused, im a bigger girl myself and seem to have no problem in finding guys who just want to be friends but nothing more? Reply to this Question
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reader, texmex556  +, writes (4 December 2009):
Yes, some of us men adore/ are obsessed with BBW. some of us are over obsessed with bigger women. I'm only 180lbs but I love women 300lbs or over. Many moons ago I was married to a 120lbs woman, I couldn't "feel" her.. It sucked..... Don't know how to explain my feeling towards larger women, but I wish they could look into my eyes and understand what my soul longs for....
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Hi,
Just wanted to say that yes there are men out there that are attracted to bigger women. I'm a plus size woman and I have dated men and they say they don't have a problem with my weight. I think it's a matter of the man's personal preference and the woman's confidence level. Even if you really don't like the way you look the best thing to do is come across like you do. Be confident, be sexy! Try not to let it worry you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): Hey,Im a size 16. Im 5"2 and im really confident with it,I used to be a size 10 and i was a 20 too (im in the uk btw) and ive noticied that I still get excatly that same amount of attention that I did when I was slimmerI really dont think that all men like just one type of girl.It really is down to prefrence,Anyways babe, if your that concerned then clearly your not comfortable about your size. Good tip, if you want to loose weight drink as much as possible of water or soft pop.It bloats you so you eat less and flushes your body out.Trust me give it a go. I do this and this is how i dropped the two dress sizes in two month.I hope everything works outMucho love Rosie B
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reader, big bird +, writes (6 August 2007):
big bird is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for taking the time to answer my question. you have all helped alot.
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reader, SumYungGuy +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Oh there are definitely men out there who enjoy larger women. I myself used to date larger women (although now my tastes have changed).
You just need to find a guy who finds all your curves attractive. And you should be loving all your curves.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (5 August 2007):
I'll be entirely honest with you here. I am a fairly large bloke (260lbs & 6'0") and I love the larger lady very much preferring them to the skinnier ones. When I cuddle a lady I like to cuddle her and not end up cuddling myself as well.
On the British dress sizes I have little or no interest when looking at girls who support less than a size 14 frame (I believe this is a size 10 in the states). My ideal size of lady would be about a size 18. I gather that would be a lady say at 5'6"- 5'10" weighing in the region of 180-225lbs.
I know over the past years when I have been out with my friends if we teamed up with a group of girls I always went for the bigger ladies leaving them to fight amongst themselves for the smaller ones. I always found the larger ladies to me more compassionate, more warmer, more bubbly, more sincere, and more loving. I know this is not the case for everybody but it is just how I see them. I know that there aren't as many guys looking where I am looking but I know am not on my own either.
Surely there must be some BBW/BHM (Big Beautiful Women/Big Hansome Men) clubs and societies where you are and even if there are not there seems to be many sites on line that you should be able to join. Some of the MSN groups are fairly good.
One of the most attractive features of a girl though regardless of her appearance or size is how she loves herself. If this inner self confidence is there it will make any girl seem so much more attractive to a guy.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Some guys do like larger girls. Some others don't. It's a matter of personal preference only. Don't worry.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Hi there babes,
Size is not an issue at all, a guy will love you for all you are darling, when we all meet guys a friendship builds well before love so give it time honey...
If the guys you have met so far want to be friends then look at it as another great friend you have met in life as for the right guy he will eventually come along babes, even girls who are skinny, meduim build have problems meeting guys so don't allow your size to be an issue you be happy and content as you are darling.....
You take care hun,
Love Donna xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): Being a bigger girl myself, I often hear that 'big girls try harder' (to please a man) so some guys think that they will get more out of a 'chubby' than they would out of a 'skinny.' But some guys actually like larger women because they don't look frail and don’t break easily. So some guys are after big girls because the think they can use and abuse them and some guys do actually feel more comfortable with a bigger girl. As long as you are happy with yourself and confident then the right guys will be attracted to you. If you are insecure and depressed then one of the useless guys will prey on your insecurities.
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