A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I am 19 years old, still studying and i have this boyfirend for 8 months already.He is cool, funny, romantic. However, when it ocmes for him to get moody, he will say all the great things happening on me are bad for him. for example today, he was detained by a teacher. He said a bad words to that teacher and he was put to discipline room. And then, when lucnh time came, he was this proud and happy telling how his teacher was so stupid calling him to take out his things in his bag and made him stand without a reason. However, i ignored it because i knew for myself that theres nothing really make sense from that, therefore, i told him that i will have dance practice after school. Then when he asked about my arts teacher, i told her name and he was like " arts sucks" " whoever she is i dont give a damn". I was like," ok" and he replied "what's wrong with you? yo uknow im angry now". i was like " so , you're making me angry too," and then he said" go and have your lunch" and he went. The feeling was, undecidable. He was mad at those teachers, though those teachers admire me so much. And when i asked him if he wanted as to go home together," he made me more angry by saying ok go ahead, stay with your friends, without wondering why i was with them." i just want to know how shall i solve this? shall i prefer to be single or forget the 8 months we've been through for him to learn to overcome his hard-headed and bad temperament? Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Anastasia  +, writes (2 June 2011):
 If I could speak your language my darling I would....run...as fast as you possibly can.
These kind of mood switches,anger towards authority and having no regard for your feelings and all that...just run. The only leads to something that will continue to get worst ....one day he will be so angry at someone else..that he will take a swing at you.
So do you forget the 8 months...YES...it will save you YEARS of heartache.
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