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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a year and it's been great but this past week I discovered he's started talking to his ex-girlfriend again. Now this ex-girlfriend is apparently also his best friend, and they were together for a over a month around a month before we got together, although he never told me this before. They only broke up because he broke her mac. The only time I had ever heard this girl mentioned before in the year we've been together was when he called me by her name a few months in.Now, she's broken up with her ex boyfriend and came running to him. He says she has no one else but the next thing his saying that when he saw her this week (without telling me, might I add) in a group, so she obviously has other friends. Now she's ringing, texting and messaging all the time and I don't know what to do. The worse thing is, he lied about it all. I discovered she invited him to stay over for her birthday this Saturday and if someone hadn't of told me I doubt he would have.I've told him that this sudden intense relationship makes me feel uncomfortable and I'm threatened by it but he says I'm being stupid. He's agreed to not stay over hers but refuses to even talk to her less, say once every few days. I haven't a clue what to do. I don't want to lose him but I feel like his taking me for a bit of a ride.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2010):
You're not being stupid at all. It's often bad news when an ex comes back onto the scene, especially with the way he is behaving. He didn't say he had met her, he didn't tell you about the sleepover, and she's ringing and messaging him all the time. I'm sure you don't want to lose him, but the way it's going you probably will.
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