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writes:Hi everyone I have just started having sex with my new boyfriend but his penis is very small he is really good at other things but when he inserts it I cannot feel anything hardly what positions are good for making him feel deeper I'm not going to talk to him about it as I don't want to upset him thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (26 May 2012):
 Cow girl, spooning or doggy can work well.
I wouldn't tell him that it is because you feel he is on the small side.
And start working those Kegels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012): Doggy style makes you feel it a little bit more if he's small.
I dont know what this other position is called but i dont think its exactly missionary. You lie on your back, put your legs up,then he puts it inside without lyng on top of you. He has to kneel. That one feels a bit deeper also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012): For gods sake don't tell him that he is too small because you will ruin his self esteem and probably cause him errectile dysfunction and fear of ever sleeping with a woman. just tell him you like certain positions better in which you feel more satisfied but don't tell him you why you prefer those positions. I bet the poor guy already have his doubts.
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reader, KittieS +, writes (26 May 2012):
 Tough question to answer.Obviously you don't want to lower your mans self esteem at all, and i completely understand why you don't want to bring this up (no pun intended) when you obviously carefor this man.So, sex should be fun but have you tried clenching your vagina muscles? You could try this as an exercise before the bedroom experience, you might find that developing these will enghighten your experience - remembering that most ladies don't actually orgasam through penetrative sex might also put your mind at rest.There is also a nice little tip that you could make your signature move that might help! When your in doggy style cross your legs over, it will helpWish you all the best and if he's "happy/good" at other things that's not a bad thing, just play around and try things out you will find a position that works for you!
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reader, Paballo  +, writes (25 May 2012):
The best thing to do is talk to him about it! Then you guys can try sex positions like u on top so u can be in charge of things! And tell him to go down on u often. Tell him wat to wen he is down there! Things like moving his finger in circles and all that whilst he is smooching on ya clitoris nice n slower.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 May 2012):
 So focus on the external stuff, oral, fingers, etc...
You can also have him insert a finger or two during sex in addition to his penis. Positions that are good for this, you lying horizontal while he kneels on the floor, doggy style, you on top.
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reader, mwarren +, writes (25 May 2012):
 Try it with you on top, this will allow you to control the positioning and or deeper penetration.
Also on your back with your legs over his shoulders,try it on a hard surface like the floor
And doggie style with your legs together instead of spread apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): Well there is always doggy style, a family favourite...
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