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writes:Is there hope for me and my ex to reunite after a month apart:we have a lot in common and he broke up because I got clingy and immature....but I like him still.I mean he asked me for family advice when he could have asked his best friend....and I do want him back..is it possible if i ask him?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Not right now. I mean, if after just one month apart you run back to him begging him to take you back, you are proving him right- you are showing that you are clingy and that you can't function without him.
Work on being ( reasonably ) happy without him, as difficult as it is , give time to friends, hobbies, family etc. etc. Then, if in,say, 3 months or so you still feel you want him in your life, you can ask him with better chances of getting a yes, because you are asking from a position of independence and content rather than one of neediness.
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reader, kerbear75  +, writes (6 October 2010):
You could ask... just be prepared for hearing both answers.
I would also ask yourself if you were being clingy, because if you were... figuring out why might be more important than winning him back.
Good luck
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reader, nightshade41 +, writes (6 October 2010):
You can try to ask him back. But I feel the whole clingy and immature thing is bullshit. He most likely found somebody and needed a cliche as a good excuse so he does not look too much like a jackass. So do not let what he says bother you and find somebody better
He did you a favor.
wish you the best
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