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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend had been best friends for 1 year and then we started dating.After 5 months he dumped me via sms saying that he thinks he made a mistake.we didn't have any contact for 8 months.I was devastated and sad because I lost an important person in my life.He showed up last october, begging me to take him back.The reason he gave me for leaving me was that he was diagnosed with cancer and wanted to take treatments without letting me know.After a long thought, I decided to give it a try.We started dating again.Few days back he dumped me again saying that he is not ready for a relationship with anyone and that I am not his type (his type is someone thin with my personality, I'm big btw)But he says things like you are my best friend, no one can take your place etc etc.He calls me and texts me daily.I am also going with it but I'm not sure if his intentions are innocent or if he's trying to string me along.I'm lost.Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): thanks for your advice amazingk :-)
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reader, amazingk  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 You're a mistake, you're not his type, etc. but you're good enough to talk to and possibly more, just as long as you're NOT in a relationship?
If the only thing that's really holding him back from you is your weight, then he's shallow and you don't need him or anybody that doesn't appreciate every inch of you and all that you have to offer. And I can bet my next paycheck that he's probably no prize package himself!
I'd suggest no longer accepting this confused man's conversation. Why keep giving him the opportunity to reject you over and over again?
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