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writes:Does having sexual encounters with multiple partners always have bad very long term affects on people? As in 30 years later? Can you not remember the pleasure only the pain as you "hit the wall"?A sexual past (as a teenager) one incident with 5 guys and 1 girl, another two guys and 1 girl. He said that you can't wash that shit off. Later in life with his wife and another woman, twice, first time was out of curiosity i guess,his male fantasy,he was invited to watch them, two women, he said he was there before he knew it and there was no where to go (he swears he never touched the other woman) his fantasy had turned out to be a nightmare and the last time (after he caught them together in the shower) the other woman turned out to be a lesbian, which i believe his ex-wife now, knew all along, a grudge fuck with his wife at same said shower, he said that he did not get off, he got disgusted, he says still never touching the other woman. He had flash backs of his teen years. She left with the other woman for a week, he took her back and he could not even get it up for his wife anymore. He is confessing this to me and said that he needed to "cleanse his soul". That he had never told anyone else about this. He does not want to have anyone else brought into our bedroom. Ever. He had a sexual hang up about having oral sex performed on him as well. that was nasty. He related oral sex (every time with every partner) to his experience as a teenager. We have gotten him past that though. He talks of these times with great shame. Anyone relate to this?
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reader, goodgirl2008 +, writes (6 October 2010):
Could you please elaborate more? Haunts you in what way? Was it not consensual?
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reader, shoccs  +, writes (23 September 2010):
Regret is always there. most people brush it off as its the past but it haunts you forever.
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