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writes:me and my boyfriend of 15 months have been on a rocky relationship at times. but throughout our relationship he rarely calls me, i always cave in and call him the next day. rarely meets me on time, i always am waiting for 5-10mins for him. he rarely buys me nice things or take me to nice places coz he's always skint, i always lend him my money. wen we hang out together we have an ok time but i kind of want more. i love him so much!am i expecting too much from my boyfriend or not?need some help?i feel like i'm being taken advantage for and i don't know what to do.advice?wbxxxx
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Well it sounds like you two just aren't the perfect match that you think you are. YOu say that you love him so much yet everything else in you post says that he irritates the hell out of you and that he's completely the opposite to what you want from a man.
You seem quite needy for his attention, which may be pushing him away. He doesn't phone so you phone him.. why? What would happen if you didn't phone him? Maybe you should see... If things are changing between the pair of you you will be better off letting them run their natural course rather than trying to control the situation.
Instead of spending your energy chasing him around or worrying about if he is in love with you.. you should start spending your time concentrating on yourself and doing things that make you happy. If your man is interested in you he will follow suit, you need to get a life of your own. If he doesn't follow then at least you will be taking steps to make yourself happy for being yourself... and then you won;t be so bothered about if he calls or not
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Have you spoken to your B/F about any of this?
I have been with my partner for five years and he is still late for anything and everything it's just one of those things that i have had to get used to.
The money you lend him do you get it back?
Does he lend you it when you need it?
My partner GIVES me money all the time but it is OUR money as we live toegther.
As for present's he doesn't have to spend money to do nice things for you.
I don't think your expecting to much but your B/F might.
Hope this helps.
xxx
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