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writes:So my ex broke up with me 3 days after valentines day... he says his reason is because he cant make me happy. I'm confused because even though we did argue we seemed to be recently working things out... He proposed to me the day after Valentine's Day so in effect i was only his fiance for 2 days.Yes we argued... but what couple doesn't? I would say it was like every 10 days it would be over something stupid and we'd always make up. So we're now over and he said don't worry if you ever need to talk to him at the other end of the phone. Well... that's the problem: whenever I phone to talk to him its always I'm too busy or I don't need this. I kinda feel like his decision to leave me was more of a split decision between him and his friend. He told me whenever he had something good to say about us his friend would brush it off and be very negative (my ex's friend would comment on the relationship like a football match.) My ex phoned me one night and was like I cant believe he (my exs friend) is acting like this. He's supposed to be my friend but I want you to know that you're the only person I can really trust... And now... We're not together...Today I phoned him as I realized he hadn't packed all my underwear... he said he'd drop it over. He basically threw it over my balcony AND THEN phoned me to say it was outside... I could hear him and his friend and 2 other girls also in the background. So I'm thinking is this your friend basically offering you his girlfriend's friend? Does he really have that much control over him as to who to be with especially after we've been together after 7 years??? I just find it all bizarre... You tell your friend you're going to propose, you do, then you break up with me and now you're telling me all of a sudden your friendships mended?? Funny that.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 February 2011):
Thank God all this happened now. Imagine if you'd gotten married and this had happened! Your ex is a little boy playing in a man's world - and he has no clue about it at all. Avoid at all costs.
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reader, leylaness +, writes (25 February 2011):
 even if his friends told him to do this, hes still not a good boyfriend for listening to them ignoring your calls or htroughing your things out of the window. Its obvios that right now he doesnt wnat a realtionship and sweetie your better off with out someone who is going ot mes you around. spend a few weeks having fun with your freinds, have a girlie night in or go out for dinner. soon youll realise there is so much more to you then a relationship and youll be happy to move on and fiond someone lese when your good and ready!
good luck sweetie i wish you all the best i hope you find a guy who will treat you like the lady you are ^^
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 Better to find this out now. I'm sorry this happened, but if he's so easily swayed, then you're probably better off without him. It sucks that he threw away 7 years. Then again, he sounds very immature. I think this is for the best, even if it really sucks right now.
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