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writes:AH! OMG, this is gonna be long, i am so sorry, but i think i just need to let it all out. First off, i know im a good person, and i dont have any major problems, except the fact that i am WAAYYY too shy. i like this guy, first initial S, and today was his birthday. I asked him, "so todays yr b-day?" he said yeahhh. And before i could wish him a great one, Amy, my friend who was overhearing, yelled out HAPPY BIRTHDAY! right over my voice. Now, i wouldve repeated myself, but wouldnt it be odd to resay it? what if he heard it and i said it again? he'd think im a weirdo. He's so cute, and the best part is he isnt a jock or girl lover, he's a family boy. Which is kinda what i am.Anyway, back on track. I did all the work [you outgoing people dont kno how HARD it is for a shy one like me to initiate a conversation!] and amy got to flirt. [ =( ] how depressing. Then when class was over [btw, class means summer drivers education] i told myself i would talk to him. And i go up and when his ride's coming, i ask "are you leaving?" [ i figured i would then say have a nice birthday!] AND then guess what happened? he frikin didnt answer...IM SURE he didnt hear me, he thought i was asking amy who was leaving. I HATE myself for not sayin anything to him, and i hate myself cuz im too shy. Anyone have ideas how to help me?? start a convo with him, or anything? like, how to act, let him kno i like him!?sorry guys i wrote too much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): hey i sometimes can b jus like u...try talkin to him and sayin hey wats up when u first see him instead of waiting around cus u might never go up to him if u wait or u might get to nervous. try not to let fear take u over b strong=]
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reader, kissmepink123  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 i dont think you should be the one starting the convo.
if hes really interested hell talk to you first.
wait for him to make the first move or youll be to easy.
guys like the challenge.
=]] and if he doesnt so what move on.
hes not ur guy then.
good luck girlll
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reader, Cristall +, writes (21 June 2007):
First of all it seems almost as if you may have a little compitition thats amy, anyways if i were you i would try to get him alone not when amys around she seems to be out going, loud, abnoxious and oviously a distraction for you and most of all likes to be the center of attention. If you want him to notice you talk to him make up a conversation ask him was that your mom, dad etc that picked you up yestaurday and after he responds make up a compliment she or he looks young or you have a nice car let him know that your not sure if he heard you but you wanted to wish him a happy belated b-day or ask him how was his class today. After starting a conversation you'll find it easier in a couple days you can compliment him on his hair cut, shoes, clothes, even his smile let him know gradually he will get the picture just take it slow i wouldn't want you to get hurt remember just because you'r crazy about him doesn't mean he feels the same. So don't be dissappointed if it doesn't turn out the way you expect, but give it a shot what do you have to loose. Periodically smile if he smiles back thats a good sighn and always greet him either hi good morning whatever it is don't be shy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): hahaha. I once was very shy.
But my popularity got me a long way.
be yourself. Laugh and be friendly with others when hes watching.
You never know, he may approche you ;].
But if you feel that you must approche him,
dont make it obviouse that youre looking for a reason to talk to him.
Girls think complementing a boy is a good way to start a conversation, but all youre going to get is a smile and a simple "yeah, thanks". Which will make you feel good,
but then, what next? unless you really have something more to say. Stick to something I guess; random?
I mean, if you see him getting introuble with a teacher,
give him an opinion. Ex: "Wow. Dont you just hate her".
Kind of thing.
BUT what I really sugguest is talk to him over MSN,
if you have one. Which Im going to guess you do.
That way, youll get to know him, AND, you can find reasons to talk to him in person ;].
Gooood luck - and dont be afraid. Xx.
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