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10 November 2008: Having sex for the first time in a relationship can be a scary, and even stressful thing. Especially if you are a virgin, like I was. I am 18 years old, and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for almost two months and we had discussed the idea ...
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We want to have sex but we know nothing about it and are both 13!
Q. my bf and i have been dating for a year and we both wanna have sex but we can't because a: my hymen hasn't broken and b: we are both 13. what do we do?...
A. 10 November 2008: I think you are too young to be thinking about having sex. However, you say that you can't have sex because your hymen hasn't broken...your hymen will break during sex (as it is supposed to...however it does sometimes break during exercise, when you ... (read in full...)
Would having oral sex mean I would be losing my vriginty?
Q. my boyfriend and i want to have oral sex.but i don't want to lose my virginity. so my question is can i lose my virginity if i have oral sex?...
A. 10 November 2008: Nope. Oral sex has nothing to do with virginity. To lose your virginity, you need to have actual intercourse (penis enters vagina).
However, some people believe that oral sex is still a form of sex and therefore if you take part in it, you have... (read in full...)
I would have sex with him, but why does this bother me so much?
Q. ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and we have been talking about sex often lately. we have no problem talking about it and its not hard to tell him what bothers me and when im not ready and such. but every time he asks me if i would (he ...
A. 10 November 2008: One of the reasons it may bother you is that you feel inadequate perhaps? Maybe you are insecure of the fact that he has been with other girls.
Well, you shouldn't worry. If he likes you, he wont be comparing you to the other women he's slept with... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but my gf is never ready. Are there ways to make a girl ready?
Q. hey frnds ! i wanna know how to make a girl ready for sex??? i need to have sex but my girlfriend is never ready to do so!! i can't controle it....i need to have sex...plzzz help me out!!!!!!! thanxxxxxxxxx...
A. 10 November 2008: If she isn't ready, then you have to respect that. If you care about her you will wait until she IS ready, and it will be even better then because it wont be rushed.
You CAN control your "urges". It's possible. However, if you feel you abso... (read in full...)
How do I get more comfortable with sex?
Q. I am in a new relationship...about 3 months old and my boyfriend is ready to have sex but im not sure that i am ready. I am a virgin...well he penetrated one time and there was some blood but he didnt penetrate again because I was nervous. I can ...
A. 10 November 2008: Well, if you are sure you are ready to then just do it. If you are questioning yourself though then you probably aren't ready. And if he cares, he won't mind waiting a bit longer.
If you are ready, then try to focus a lot on foreplay. As frank as t... (read in full...)
Do some girls object to receiving oral sex
Q. is it true that some girls dont like being eaten out?...
A. 10 November 2008: I love receiving it! I objected to the idea of it at first, but when my boyfriend assured me I would like it, I decided to give it a try. He loves doing it, and he is really good at it.
But, as others have said, it's only good if the guy knows wh... (read in full...)
Am I too young for sex?
Q. hi im 13 and want to lose my virginty.im i too young? what will i feel like after the sex? and worst of all i want to do it with my cousin whos the same age as me. i've like him sence i was 2 and i think he likes me back.what do i do.how do i get my ...
A. 10 November 2008: In my opinion, yes, you are too young. Your body is still growing and changing. Sex hurts, a lot, the first time for many girls. I'm 18 and I just lost my virginity a few days ago and the pain was immense.
Now, depending on where you live... (read in full...)
Do girls like giving oral sex?
Q. Do girls actually enjoy giving oral sex? Or do they feel obligated to do it?...
A. 10 November 2008: It isn't my favourite thing to do...to be honest. I have a small mouth so it is uncomfortable for me sometimes. My jaw will start to pop a bit. However, I will do it for my boyfriend anyways. The taste of the sperm doesn't bother me, I just don't ... (read in full...)
I am scared of sex!!!!!
Q. I am actually 13 and one of my friends has been having sex (or so she says she does) and I was thinking maybe I should but I'm scared and my parents are overprotective -- not toooo much but I want to, now will I be a virgin forever if I'm scared to ...
A. 10 November 2008: No, that doesn't mean you will be a virgin forever. You are only 13, you should be afraid of sex. I know I was at that age! You being afraid simply says you are not yet ready for it, which is completely understandable. As you grow older and mature ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?
Q. I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my ...
A. 10 November 2008: Lots and lots of lube. Also, make sure you are as relaxed as possible, this will relax your pubic muscles making it easier for him to enter you.... (read in full...)
How can I make sex wonderful for my virgin girlfriend?
Q. Hey everyone, I've been going out with my girlfriend for two months now, and recently she's started hinting that she might want to have sex. Which is great! But the one thing I'm worried about is that she's a virgin... I have had sex before and...
A. 10 November 2008: Honestly, it will most likely hurt her the first time, if not the first few times. Virgin girls still have their hymen in tact in most cases, so when you penetrate, it will stretch or tear the hymen causing pain and discomfort. But, the more you do ... (read in full...)
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