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Any tips on how to get over my troubled relationship??

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Question - (18 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does anyone have any tips on how to get over an ex? We were together for nine months, and despite ending it I still have strong feelings for him. I ended it because I felt he had lost interest in me as anything other than a sex object, and knew I had to get out of the relationship as it was making me feel used and depressed. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over this relationship? Many thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007):

Take on day at a time..

Think of all the bad things that went wrong yeah it hurts to think and may cry...but it helped me alot

If that doesn't work try to get a new guy that appreciates you like you want be and don't make the realationship about sex again because it will turn on you

trust me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

I'm kind of going through the same thing right now, but from a previous relationships where I felt used sexually by a guy I just had to feel sorry for him, and know deep down that I deserved better. Actually, I made a police report because after we broke up he sexually assaulted me. Just remember that even though that didn't happen to you, it could have and just thank God it didn't happen. How do you know he only treated you like an object? I'm not saying he didn't, because if it was your gut instinct then you should follow it. But, did he ever meet your family or friends? Did you guys do other things than have sex? Did you guys love each other? What exactly did he do that made you feel the way you did?

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