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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I'm seeking any tips on a certain problem. Well today at work, this one woman returned from taking off on most of summer. Well, I have a huge crush on her that I can no longer deny. She's absolutely beautiful, and very sweet. The thing is though, that I couldn't even work by her today, and when I'm by her I absolutely shut down. I'm super shy by her. I'm 20, and plan on taking classes at a college in winter, and have never been in a relationship ever. She's 26, and has two daughters (twins), her older sister gets along very well with me and used to joke around that her younger sister is "single". Sure there's the part where she speaks mostly Espanol, and myself English. I can always get some Rosetta Stone equipment though. :-P I suppose I'm at the point of just finding a different starting job, as I just can't act normally around her. She's just so.. intimidating (not in a bad way). She only works on Friday-Sunday, but they prefer me to work those days. I guess I just lack the courage to even think of asking her out. So, should I attempt to muster the courage to ask her out? I understand the responsiblity I would have to take to help herself and children, or should I just let this be dust in the wind and move to a different job?
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reader, happybunny  +, writes (16 August 2008):
come on, you only live once so make your move fast because if you thinks shes perfect so does another man so move fast but start small just ask her to get some food after work or something. If your thinking about moving you have nothing to lose becasue if it fails you only have to face her for a few more weeks but dont leave it too late.
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