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30-35,
*ayfinnigan
writes:okay, theres this boy i really like and we finally are boyfriend and girlfriend again, he says he thinks im nice looking and cute, and tells everyone he likes me and i feel the same about him. about 3 days ago he asked me out and i said yes, but we can't have a proper conversation together, i get really nervous and red, and my voice goes all dry and weird and its harder for me to speak to him. before we went out we were able to speak but now he goes all shy. should i start the conversation first? please please please help me??????[Mod Note: I suspect the age may be lower here than stated.]
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 just relax, be yourself around him....as you said, he's nervous too so get him to loosen up a little ...you need to take a deep breath and just be you...
talk about different topics...you ask first cause it's easier for the girl to tlk so he could get a little more comfortable....and smile, look into his eyes, be flirtatious so he knows you're really into him and you really want this boyfriend and girldfriend thing to last...then he'll be more confident and open when you're around eachother and i asure once he's confortable and got rid of his nervousness, im pretty sure you wont be either.
good luck
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