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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:A couple of years ago I had an extremely complicated relationship with my best friend. It ended not too long after it started and we've spent the last two years getting back to the way we were before we dated and wrecked our friendship. It's only recently that I've truly felt we've managed to get there. A few weeks ago he sent me a text to ask what I was doing. I texted back that I was in work. He texted to say he was in a pub in Oxford watching football. And that was it. I've texted him a few times since then and got no replies but I've been so busy in work that it didn't occur to me until the other day that he hadn't replied so I looked him up on facebook and he'd disappeared on that too. I tried calling him and got the message that the caller wasn't available. No option to leave a message. There always was before. I've since tried emailing him and the message rebounds. Having got in touch with our one mutual friend I know this isn't just happening to me so I haven't done anything to upset him, but I can't stop thinking about him and worrying. He literally has disappeared off the face of the earth. I'm not sure what I'm asking, maybe for ideas of what might have happened or any way I can stop thinking about it. Thanks in advance.
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reader, SeanJohn  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 It seems to be a one way street here. The guy is not interested in you romantically or otherwise. Seems he was bored in the pub ran out of people to call and dialed you just like that. Trust me if a guy is a wee bit interested, he'll call back. Don't get stuck with the Clingy label!!Divert your mind to work or other guys or even better goto Ibiza and get sloshed!
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reader, Midge +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Well I would probably see about contacting his parents. His parents will surely know where he is. Perhaps he has decided that he needs a change of scenery and decided to take a working holiday somewhere. It happens a lot to people your age.
Before you think of something terrible, look at the basics first. Mum and dad, then siblings if he has any, then closest mates.
Do a BT search to get his families telephone number, or if they are ex directory, go to where he used to live and speak to the new owners etc.
Let us know when you find him! Good Luck!
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