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writes:I am 14 years old, and i am DEFF not known as a "bad girl" and no one would guess that i touch myself in ways! sometimes when I am alone, i will take offf my close and finger myself. is there any other way I can get a good sensation like that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Illithid +, writes (22 September 2009):
 That's entirely normal. Feel free to explore your body with your fingers, or vibrators, or even detachable shower heads (as an ex of mine said she liked). Just be aware that if you're using a dildo or vibrator internally, you can very easily break your hymen. All of my ex-girlfriends broke theirs long before having sex, but if you want to save yours for a man, be aware how easily you can break it.
Please, do me a favor and don't jump into bed with a boyfriend (even one you think you love) in the first few months of a relationship, no matter how close you feel. Wait, take it slow, and be sure he REALLY loves you and isn't going to dump you the next day.
But when you DO have sex some day, the more you've played with yourself and gotten to know what works well for you, the better you'll be able to guide him and teach him what to do for you. Most women that complain that their men cannot pleasure them really just don't even know their own bodies and needs.
Not to mention that masturbation is the one and only way to have sexual satisfaction with zero risk of disease or pregnancy, and your fingers will never cheat on you or dump you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
You're a normal girl. The best thing is to continue as you are and explore your body. Do not have sex until you are ready and of age. Just have fun.
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reader, Caramelicious  +, writes (22 September 2009):
yes... you can put a vibrator in your pussy to feel the sensation. but please be in control as you might find yourself wanting to have sex with guys. be careful. I would rather touch myself than have sex with someone I don't even know or a guy who is jerk and bastard. If you can't handle it... don't forget to use condom. please be safe. STDs and AIDS are everywhere now. Masturbation is safe. Goodluck!
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