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Any ideas on how to create the perfect fantasy for my boyfriend while we are away?

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Question - (2 November 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2013)
A age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I could use your ideas everyone.

Me and my guy are going out of town soon. We are going to be spending a weekend away.

I want to plan something brilliant for him while we are away... something to do to really blow him away while we are in the hotel room...

What scenario can I create for him? What can I do to him and for him that will really excite him and make it memorable for the rest of his days?

I would like to do something elaborate, sexy... something that is different... passionate... fun... all of the above. Definitely something unexpected and unpredictable.

Anyone have some ideas for a fantasy come true?

THANK YOU! I just am at a loss on what to do!

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A female reader, Intrigued3000 Canada +, writes (2 November 2013):

Intrigued3000 agony auntYou could role play...pretend you're strangers at a bar meeting for the first time. Wear a trench coat, with nothing underneath, except some lacy underwear, stockings, a garter belt and high heels. I love some of the ideas given by other contributors...playing footsy with him, and when you take him back upstairs, follow male anonymous suggestions on how to blow his mind. You could also incorporate some kind of action in the elevator (if no one else is there).

Have fun. I think it's great what you're doing. He's never going to forget you ever:)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2013):

You probably know what his fantasies are best.

Don't do anything to complicated or extravagant though. Nothing that involves you having to bring lots of extra equipment because he'll notice you're travelling a bit heavy for a weekend away

Avoid things that take ages of preparation time because you'll have to "get rid" of him while you're preparing and if it takes too long he might wonder what you're up to. If it's a costume make sure it doesn't take too long to put on. Don't do what I did once and take so long getting changed only to find b/f had fallen asleep! Especially if you've already had a long day travelling, sight-seeing, hiking or whatever it is you plan on doing.

If you're staying in a really posh hotel they will sometimes provide extras such as champagne, strawberries, chocolates, rose petals on the bed etc (obviously for additional payment) To keep costs down you can provide these extras yourself and see if you can make an arrangement with the housekeeping staff to set things for you for a generous tip.

Your fantasy scenario needn't be completely confined to the hotel room though - if there's a risque film or play showing nearby you could go and see that. Or if you're going somwhere very quiet and remote you could make love outdoors (weather permitting) Go to a posh restaurant with long tablecloths and wear a very sexy (but classy)outfit. Play footsie with him and tell him you're not wearing any underwear. It's a great way to get him in the mood before you get make to the hotel room

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 November 2013):

person12345 agony auntWhy don't you ask him what his fantasy is? Everyone is different. Also don't forget about you, if you are there a week he should be doing this for you too! Make sure he knows yours.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2013):

You are the one who is going to decide on that of course since you probably know what he likes. But for a start, you can pull him and start with a long oral sex that would continue even after he finishes. That might be a bit challenging for you but definitely memorable for him. Then you can take him to bathroom, oil up with some massage oil and continue to make love in the shower.

Something unexpected would be anal, if you have never done it before. He might like it if you take the lead.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2013):

Why not purchase a maids outfit ? ( Ann summers do them) get him into the shower ( alone) while you transform yourself .. Get stocking high heels the works ... Make a knocking sound and then go to the bathroom door and say " honey that's house keeping, you stay in there and I see to them' ..

Then when your ready say ' all clear' keep your back to him as he comes out pretend to be dusting, fixing the sheets, of the bed, make sure he got a good eyeful of your stocking n butt .. And then turn around and say my name is Marie I like to play...I like to tease.... But most of all sir I come to please ... Haha ...

Take care

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