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Anal sex instructions, please

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Question - (12 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, *exyMia27 writes:

i want anal sex so badly......could someone give me a step by step guide? and any tips on the first time?

Thank you

Mia

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A female reader, sexyMia27 United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2007):

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sexyMia27 agony auntThank you very much for everyone that left advice...

Myself and my boyfriend tried it recently following all your guidelines... We didnt manage it all for long...but after abit of practising witha butt plug, we will try again..

Thanks again..

Mia

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

plenty of lube, condum, and a slow careful partner to start! I too was a little curious to start, but never experienced it till i traveled abroad. Now, I can't get enough of it! LOL. It was very weird to actually be asked which hole i wanted it in. Americans seem to think this is taboo?? Now advice wise, I'd start off alone in the bathtub with a toy, once your comfortable with that, move up to a real one!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

Just adding my two cents one the germ issue. Make sure your partner does not go back to your vagina after being in your anus without changing condoms and washing up. Germs spread that way can lead to bladder infections or worse.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

Are there any plus sides - I'm reading this as a 35 year old and beginning to realise why I've never bothered.....

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthi,the first time you have anal sex ensure that you are lubricated first,get yourself laid face down on a bed,let your boy friend put oil on his finger and gently rub your anal,then put more oil on his fingers 2 and massage your passage again.

After gently doing this for a period of time your passage will enlarge,then turn onto your back make sure your feet are touching the floor and hold on to the bedding or you will fall on the floor in pain,get him to use a well lubricated condom and gently rub against your passage,do not rush,do not use brute force, gently whilst still putting oil on himself and you slowly enter your passage.

If he forces to much your bowel will tear and you will need medical attention,some time by having anal sex you can get intestine infections,but if you take and use reliable condoms then you may be alright, i hope this helps, enjoy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

Lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. And go slowly. Listen to your body. If it feels uncomfortable - stop. Make sure the guy wears a condom. This orfice was not really intended for sex, and you can do serious damage if you rip the lining, plus it opens up a whole world of weird infections that can cause problems in your intestines. Good luck.

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A female reader, Titania70 United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

Well, just try it out! Make sure your partner wears a lubricated condom and you add lubricant to yourself cos it will be more pleasurable. Avoid experiencing anal sex in the doggy-style position cos it does not always feel great. Especially at first. Enjoy!

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