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writes:ugh i seriously need help. kay so i have a boyfriend, it's good and all but there's a problem... my ex. I think i'm always going to have feelings for him... but i don't want to. Like everything is so nice now with my boyfriend. but i can't get my ex out of my head. and i'm like depressed. really, like i feel like shit. and i have no idea what to do. I really don't want to mess things up with my bf... I was thinking about having my ex over JUST TO HANG OUT. would that be wrong? i mean i want to be good friends with my ex... and i haven't seen him since we broke up.. any advice? thank you so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): I think you are still in love or whatever with your ex. New bf sounds like a rebound. You need time and space from your ex and get over him completely. And in that time you shouldnt be dating another person. You won't always have feelings for the ex. Just give it time. And hanging out and talking a lot makes it much worse... If your ex has no interest in being back together, you need to cut all ties. Hanging out wont give you the closure you need to move on from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): No!!! what the hell are you thinking girl lol, if hes your ex hes your ex, new guy loves you give him your time and love youl be better off, IF? your ex has displayed emotion as to want you back then yeh but sounds as though he hasent, you CANNOT just have ur ex over to hang out.clearly your not over him,do Not lead your new bf on as a re bound it is not fair or right ..
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