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Am I wishing for something that could never happen?

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Question - (17 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2010)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

She's married, I'm single and not in a relationship. She comes over often when her husband is at work. At times she has lied to him that she's been over by me but I'm sure the neighbors are watching. One day her husband called her from his place of work and told her to bring him lunch. She went out and bought his lunch and delivered. She then went out and bought lunch for her and me, came over and had lunch with me. She was in a abusive relationship before she married this guy. He makes double her income and very much in control!

She works, does laundry, cooks and cleans house. She talks, I listen and I feel comfortable with that. She tells me of her day at work and her marital problems. She does not talk about divorce but told me his attitude is getting old! She told me it's so peaceful when his not home. I feel very good when she's with me but she's married! We have caught each other checking each others private parts. When I stand with my back turned to her she takes a deep breath and exhales with Hmmm! I turn around and she sits there caressing her hair! Is this going anywhere between her and me or am I wishing it does! Please advice, thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010):

How can you be sure that the 'abusive relationship' she was in before was actually what she says it was - perhaps she was dumped for cheating on her partner and by laying blame on someone else she comes off looking like the victim.

Stay away from her - she is manipulative and if her husband had to find out about this YOU would be blamed NOT her.

How would you feel if you were married and your wife went off everyday to try and seduce the nextdoor neighbour??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010):

This lying scheming woman is looking to F around while her hb is out slogging for her. She is pathetic and btw, so are you. She is stealing his resources and using his money to buy food foir you. You have no decency do you? You want another mans wife and the fact that she is married is not an issue. Yes her hard working hb is getting stale, but she is lapping up the use of his money. You people who whinn all thge time. Tell this woman to divoce her hb and then you can have a good for nothing user in your life. You both deserve each other.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010):

Don't have an affair with a married person. It might be a lot of fun, it might be more excitement and drama than you would ever want as well.

However, the pain it causes can be more than you would ever imagine.

Suppose you have an affair, she divorces him, marries you...then what? What happens to you later?

Do some internet searching on affairs and you will find out.

Statistics suck, and you don't want to be a statistic.

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