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*illybabyx
writes:were both 17 btw xi met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and weve always had abit of chemistry. recently last month he inboxed me giving me his number because he quit the gym. weve been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break just to see me, he texts me all day, he tells me he likes me, blahblah. but his girlfriend lives with him? he said even when they werent together she lived there, because her family are close to his, and she had nowhere to live, he said there not affectionate, its not a proper relationship, he likes me more then her and everything. last night we met and he was hugging me, and he texts me later that night saying he wanted to kiss me, and to come out at the weekend. but i feel like im being played about, he said he hates feeling like hes ******* me about its just awkward because lizzie (his gf) lives with him and is invovled with his family.we have spoke quite sexual on texts messages but that was only once or twice, he does bring it up, but i worry that he might be trying to use me, but he does texts me right in the morning, and generally seems interested, Does he truly like me or is he just asking for a bootycall?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 Darling, you never ever date a guy who lives with or his apparent ex girlfriend lives with him. He needs to clean house before he dates someone new. If you two were to get together how are you going to trust him with his ex under one roof? No trust= no relationship, or a very rocky one soon to fall apart.
Although, I call bullshit on his ex being just a roommate. I'm sure this chick is capable of saving money, moving out, or living with a relative. How about they're not broke up? Use your head here.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (16 February 2011):
 hi
i know this answer won't please you but unfortunately i think he is looking for a bit on the side. he starts sexual text conversations with you, in my experience i can tell you, a lad can text you all day long, and it can make you feel nice and special but it doesn't always mean he is genuinely into you.
and now for the fact that his GF exGF or whatever he calls her lives with him. no chance. if you mean anything to him he will be happy to start something with you AFTER she has got somewhere else to live and moved out. seriously i have been in more scenarios like this than you have had 'hot dinners' - and just i think i have heard every lie and trick in the book, another one comes up! it is hard to trust and believe certain individuals at the best of times, and this, a man who lives with his girlfriend is NOT good bet.
get out now while it is still early days, before you get used and hurt and maybe even end up getting a kicking from his girlfriend. call his bluff. tell him you will call for him at his house and see what his reaction is. coz i am betting that this 'non-relationship' with his 'housemate' would be news to her!
xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2011):
You're being used, if ever a woman was.
His girlfriend lives with him, but they're not together. Instead, she lives with him because they're close and she's involved with his family? Sounds to me like he's still with her and is just after cheating. I wouldn't have anything to do with him. He's just after using you.
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