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*sears1989
writes:Help me. My fiances family kicked me out of there house cause I got laid off. They say I can come back after I get a job but I'm pregnant and don't think ill have much luck in it. Also my fiance told me if I ever got kicked out that he would come with me but he didn't cause he doesn't see it as me getting kicked out as I'm allowed back once I have a job. I don't like living apart from my fiance. He thinks I should stay with my family till he can afford a place for us but I don't want to do that because what if this baby comes before he can afford the place? I need him here with me. I'm tired of living apart I just want to live together. Plz help me and tell me I'm not the only pregnant women living apart from her significant other when I used to live with him.
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reader, Dsears1989 +, writes (20 October 2009):
Dsears1989 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replys but that's not what I asked for. I asked if anyone else is going through what I'm going through.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (19 October 2009):
 I wholeheartedly agree with Satindesire.. What a family @shudder@
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reader, satindesire +, writes (19 October 2009):
 I hate to say this, but his family isn't the kind of family I'd want my baby to be around. That's all I can really comment on at the moment because the idea of those people doing that really pisses me off and I don't want to go off in this post when it won't do any good.
Sorry you're going through this honey. Many prayers sent up for you. God bless.
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reader, marieclaire  +, writes (19 October 2009):
 oh my god! this is so horrifying. firstly who kicks out a pregnant lady? it's disgusting and secondly what kind of man is your fiance that he wouldn't 1)stick up for you and 2) go with you.he has essentially santioned his family throwing out his fiance and unborn child! what if the baby was born before you get a job? do they expect you to live on the street?
none of them sound like the kind of people i'd want to be living with anyway. i think you should go to your family if you are stuck for a place to live. your fiance should be with you and if he's not i would question is loyalty and how much he cares about you and his baby
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reader, CaringGuy  + ♥, writes (19 October 2009):
I don't really know what to say to this. You're pregnant, and you're at your most vulnerable and they've thrown you out. That's really appalling. I suspect it's more likely they've thrown you out because you are pregnant and they don't want you to ahve the baby there. That said, it is very important that you go to your parents at the moment and ask for their help. You will need it. The important thing now is that you and your baby are in a safe environment that is stress free. Babies can become stressed if their mother is stressed. Allow your boyfriend to find the money for a place, and you focus on your own health and your baby. Focus on that at the moment. Good luck.
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