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writes:I don't know what to do because I am a teenager, and all my friends have boyfriends but I don't! At first I thought it was because I just wasn't in the right place but then my brother's friend asked me why I always seemed so dull and angry! I don't try to act this way! I don't know what to do! Am I radiating anger and sadness and how do I fix the situation because I am so lonely and feel left out because all my friends are so happy! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): Your brother's friend is a jerk for saying that. And just so you know, even if it were "true" you don't say that to someone. Look at it for what it is, and DON't take it to heart cause HE'S got the problem, NOT YOU. That's just a case of him taking advantage of your insecurities and trying to be mean and put you down so he can feel better about himself. Next time stand up for yourself and ask him why he's so tactless.
And furthermore, ignoring what he said, do YOU think your dull? or mean? I highly doubt it, cause if you were you wouldn't have any friends. I bet you are great. So just put yourself out there more and try to meet and talk to boys, just as friends. Don't be shy. The more you do this, the more likely you are going to meet someone you can have a relationship with. Just BELIEVE in yourself. Go for it.
And remember that when people say mean things to you, it's usually cause they have a low self image. Don't take it to heart. TRUST ME.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Hey hun,
first dont worry, you'll find your perfect guy sooner or later dont feel left out. Prehaps talk to your friends about how you are feeling and spend some more time with them having girley activites. Dont listen to your brothers friend, we all as teenagers have our emotional ups and downs. Try and focus on the postives' and dont keep worrying about the fact you dont have a boyfriend, just keep looking and you'll find mr right :) soon
good luck hunny xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Sweetie, I know how you feel about the boyfriend thing. I don't have one either! Just because your brother's friend said that you're dull and angry, it doesn't mean that you are! You know what boys are like! Talk to your friends about this and ask them if they think that you are dull and angry, and ask them what you could do to get a boyfriend, or ask them if they know any cute guys! But you don't need a guy to make you happy, I am so happy and I don't have a boyfriend. Sometimes guys can just make you more depressed! Enjoy being an independent woman! But if you still feel like you need a boyfriend, talk to your friends and see if they can hook you up. Good luck! x
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reader, confusd31  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 the only person that can make you truly happy is yourself. its like a catch 22 situation you are depressed at not having a boyfriend and this can be seen in everything you do. you would never want to go out with a boy who looked sad all the time would you? Forget about getting a boyfriend fill your time with the things you love doing and the boys will start flooding in. Dont look too desperate to get a boyfriend as nobody wants a person who is desperate. love comes when you least expect it enjoy life and he will find you. thats a promise
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