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16-17,
lastgirlstanding
writes:I know to a certain extent it is normal to try and interpret the actions of others but I guess I do not know what is healthy and what is not. The man I am seeing, who seems well-balanced, and is friends with some of my friends, so comes with accolades as a good guy. He was pursuing me for the first few weeks of dating, things were great. He would call or text just to let me know that he was thinking of me. We had a discussion a couple of weeks ago where I told him that due to religious and personal beliefs, I have chosen to remain abstinent until marriage. We had a very frank discussion about it. I thought we were done dating but he called me and wanted to continue to see me. But the entire dynamic has changed and for the last 2 weeks I feel like I have to initiate contact and communication. Can someone help me figure out whats going on? We've only been dating about 2 months, and if i tell him i miss it i don't want him to feel obligated, but it really was part of his appeal...that he was very open and it made me feel good to be thought about.
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reader, Jen86  +, writes (6 May 2008):
my answer really doesn't change. The nly thing to do with ur age is exams and college. MAybe he's just overworked or something like that. Just talk to him and ask if hes ok.
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reader, lastgirlstanding +, writes (6 May 2008):
lastgirlstanding is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't know why it says i am 16-17, but i am 27. does anyone know where/how i can change that?
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reader, Jen86 +, writes (6 May 2008):
Congrats on sticking to ur beliefs for starters. Ask him if anythings wrong. If he trys to pressure you for sex forget about it. If hes got somehting on his mind let him talk to u about it. It could be problems at home or anything at all. ur 16/17 so im guessing he's the same age since he knows a few of the same ppl as u. Maybe hes stressed about upcoming exams or college (not sure how it works over there). If he's lost interest then move on.
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