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Am I gay if I like anal sex?

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Question - (10 August 2009) 13 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

she was on her period so we had anal sex, it was all good but afterwards she asked if she could bum me, i've always wondered so i let her ( she used a strap on ) It felt so amazing, i started thinking afterwards, does this mean i could be gay?

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A male reader, Skweebuu United States +, writes (31 October 2009):

Okay, first, you're gay if you like men. You're not gay, I know a lot of straight guys who love having something in their ass... The reason behind this is that when your partner is 'doing' you, she is massaging your prostate... This is EXTREMELY pleasurable for ANY guy. I've even seen guys who cum from using the bathroom because of this... Bottom line, you like having your prostate stimulated, it has nothing to do with being gay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009):

When I started showing interest in my first GF's ass, she got scared and asked me if I was "gay"- years later (after we broke up) she confesed that her and her then BF had gotten into it and she'd been scared years ago due to my size. I was flattered (and surprised when she confessed that the big (footballer) that she was dating had a small willy. good for my ego! but she turned me down that night!

It took me a few more years to find a woman that would let me in her bum, and she liked it! She returned the favor, and I've NEVER wanted to have sex with a man!

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A male reader, jc2008 United Kingdom + , writes (23 September 2009):

This is funny, I'd go with the GSpot theory here. If you enjoy it, keep doing it. Just don't forget your lube

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009):

Agree with the others... your gay if you want a man to do it to you and have no interest in women.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009):

Hello... gay means you like men... if a woman (hint! WOMAN) does something to you... that's not a man, and hence NOT GAY!)

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntThis is interesting what will the kids think up next my first though is to say your gay, but i have to evaluate what makes some one gay, in my opinion sexual attraction makes one gay not sexual satisfaction.

for instance if a str8 man was blind folded and given a BJ then asked if he enjoyed it witch would be pretty obvious. If the man sex yes then its revealed that the person giving a blow job is also a man would that make the man gay no.

If your a man and your sexually aroused by the appearance of other men then your gay.

In fact i beleive many so called gay men are in fact str8 they just choose to have sex with men because its easier.

Men in general are far more promiscuous then women in other words men are easy they love sex and dont have to many hangups about having it whenever and where ever they can.

Gay sex has other advantages aswell no pregnancy no pms both partners are pretty mutch guaranteed to orgasm.

The one thing that im a bit confused on is the poster states the anal sex felt amazing from a biological stand point what would be the purpose of a man getting sexual pleasure from that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

No, your not gay if you dont think you are.

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A male reader, heartfullalove Ireland +, writes (11 August 2009):

heartfullalove agony auntNo dude, it was your girlfriend who did you! it just means you've discovered the almighty power of anal orgasm. If you decide you want a man to do it, then you're bi.

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A female reader, hijacked_dignity United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

hijacked_dignity agony auntQuite a few heterosexual men like this. The prostate is a great way to reach an orgasm, so don't feel like you are alone on this one. However I have to warn you the risks of having too much anal sex. Biologically the anus isn't really meant for the entire reverse roll. What with two sphincters and rather thin lining along the tract. So from a medical standpoint, be careful? This can take a toll later down the road.

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A female reader, Renee okc United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

No you are not gay you are just freaky honey, Don't worry so much, now if you do it with a man then you are probably Bi at most but since you have a girlfriend this doesn't mean you are gay. The only problem you have is dealing with your girlfriend and if she gets tired of doing it to you. Something tells me you wont have any problems. Lol good luck hun

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

My boyfriend loves it when I do that too, and he's 41 so would probably know if he was gay by now. If you're attracted to women and not men, then you're not gay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

No it doesnt mean that you are gay, although theres nothing wrong with it of you are! It just means that you like having your male G-spot, or P-spot as some people call it, stimulated... this is the back of the prostate gland and it gives guys a more intense and different orgasm than just a penis-stimulation orgasm alone. :) Hope this helps, and dont worry about what you enjoy! :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

it only means your gay if you have feelings for a man. Supposedly the male version of a g-spot is up his bum so thats why it would feel good for you. hope this helps

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