New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login239614 questions, 1059324 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Am I bored with my boyfriend or this realtionship?

Tagged as: Online dating<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (18 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2008)
A female Singapore age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I met online and it is now one and half year were are together. I am now getting impatient cos we still haven't met each other though he always made plans but for some reason it alway postponed. Latest plan is he is coming this May'08. I am kind of bored with him that we always talk on line or phone but really nothings beats the personal contact right? and i observed that he is not been remembering to sent something during such special occasions its not much on material things but at least a card to sent on my birthday, christmas, and lately valentines. I dont know whats up with him that he seems to be just on chatting. We plans to settle down by this year but im wondering how was it in the real world being with him. He loves me and he feels hurt when im getting cold with him and showing boredom. Im still confused pls help.

View related questions: christmas, met online

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, R.D.L.S United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2008):

This is no relationship

1. you havent met yet .. and its more than likely you wont later on

2.If he's getting impatient he's only after one thing!

If he really liked you then he would wait until your ready to meet and maybe take it to the next level

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, wazwazy United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2008):

wazwazy agony auntthis guy doesnt seem very interested in u so i say tell him that u dont htink it is workin out between us then he might say someting in reply and if he does like u he will say no plz i can change or somethin like tha any way then if he just says ok he doesnt like u personaly i think datin sites are not very good cause u are young enough and probably nice enough to get some1 in the real world not on some online datin website so good luck

<-- Rate this answer


A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (18 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou have not met him or visited him and you plan to settle down with him just based on your chatting online?

I think this is a very risky way to find your life partner. He could be married or a very old man or a drug pusher .

He does not send anything on your birthday , Valentine and Christmas.There is something quite fishy here .

He could be leading you on and after May , if he did not come , you can forget about him.

<-- Rate this answer


A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

I am sorry, but it is Unfathomable to me how you can have a boyfriend that you have never met and that you have only communicated on line and by phone.....I think this is a house built on sand....I hope that you can eventually meet, but I don't blame you for feeling like you do, and the guy feeling bad that you are getting bored, has unrealistic expectations about the future of this relationship....just see how it goes in May when you finally do meet, but to hold out and cut yourself off from other possible romanitic relationships or friendships is kind of, well, ridiculous.....take care.

<-- Rate this answer


A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (18 February 2008):

GrimmReality agony auntYou haven't met, and it's been a year and a half? I'm sorry this happened to you. I have experience in this field. I need to tell you that as harsh as this will sound, this other person probably has no intention of ever meeting you. I would consider giving this up and moving on. Nothing good will come of this.

<-- Rate this answer


A female reader, faith_believe_love Korea - Republic of +, writes (18 February 2008):

faith_believe_love agony auntHi,..You both met online throught chat as you said.Your relationship with him was a good sign you know you two wont lasts for about year and a half if one of you are not serious or dont have love for each other. If you want to see him Ma'am why dont you do something. You wont lose anything if you just give it a try. Hope this helps.GoodLuck.take care.

<-- Rate this answer


Add your answer to the question "Am I bored with my boyfriend or this realtionship?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft