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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a female teenager who is confuseed about my sexuality. I masturbate quite often and unfortunately I cant get turned on by the thought of a man.. Only girl on girl action really gets me aroused... but if im dating a male and things get rowdy.. I get aroused. I fantasize about women only... but I'd never openly date a woman.. I'd have sex with a girl if I met one I was attracted to.. but nothing more..Am I bisexual? Will I grow out of this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): It sounds like you are more than bi-sexual, but are afraid to admit to yourself that you like women. I think it is because you are scared of the social consequences. Don't date men just because you want to conform: it is unfair to do that to anyone! Don't rush into anything, give yourself time to explore things, maybe get together with a woman somewhere outside your school/uni and then decide for yourself it is only a fantasy or if there is actually any merit in your fantasies.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 February 2009):
 Hi there,
Personally, I think that there is an awful lot of gray area between gay-straight-bi. So, why be so hasty to throw yourself in a box? You're young, and still developing your sexuality... just chill out and be with who you feel attracted to. I wouldn't worry so much about "what are you?", just be you and forget the labels.
Good luck, sweetness!
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